Have you guys ever been bullied?
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posted02/14/2011 11:48 AM (UTC)by
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iHotaru
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I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.
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SEGAmaniac7
02/10/2011 03:17 AM (UTC)
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iHotaru Wrote:
I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.


I laughed at the last one. sorry but I dont want to lie to you. Its very rude I would never say that. I mean I never say racist remarks to someone, well actually

I usually dont though and if i do I never get extreme I would never say "nigger" to a black guy. I usually joke with friends bu never get racist and try to offend them.

but I have been bullied alot, because of my race, used to get called terrorist cause I used to go to a school filled with white kids. Now its opposite cause they all arabs. Also cause I'm a loner, barely any friends, I wouldn't be considered very muscular or a good fighter or athlete. People try to take advantage of me, make up shit, talk shit, treat me like shit. I almost always get left out, when I first meet or see people they tend to not like me.

I only really had a few really good friends, others i thought were my friends but ditched me and fucked me over later on.

I just think people dont try to understand me.
They judge somebody to soon and dont welcome them cause they aint the same.

but fuck them, I dont need people like that. And i dont let what people say get to me.

Show no weakness.

And Im not a bad guy or a douch or an asshole or anything like that. but thats life, one day it wont matter anymore. One day things will change.
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02/10/2011 03:20 AM (UTC)
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iHotaru Wrote:
I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.


Fuck yeah, I have!

All my life!

I still am to this day. I'm just glad I haven't lost my sanity like many others, and did something that I would later regret. I do have much empathy for them, though. I know what it's like in their shoes.
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02/10/2011 03:35 AM (UTC)
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Riyakou Wrote:
iHotaru Wrote:
I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.


Fuck yeah, I have!

All my life!

I still am to this day. I'm just glad I haven't lost my sanity like many others, and did something that I would later regret. I do have much empathy for them, though. I know what it's like in their shoes.


Yeah it must be tough getting bullied for being gay.

I feel you man, you just gotta get through man, dont let them hurt you.

Thats their goal, find your weakness,use it against you to see you hurt.
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Icebaby
02/10/2011 03:43 AM (UTC)
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People can be cruel.

In high school, when I got my ass thrown into a wheelchair for safety purposes due to my condition, people made fun of me... FOR BEING IN A WHEELCHAIR.

My condition was a joke to them. Just because you've never heard of "Syncope" before, doesn't mean I'm making it up. I'm not passing out for gaining attention or faking it. I wouldn't put myself through all this mess just to gain popularity.

I got picked on because my friends were into the Gothic trend and I somewhat followed a little bit, but not to an extreme.

Got picked on for being in marching band. Yet my defense was always "I'm in the drumline, I'm in the cooler part of band."

Got picked on for no apparent reason.

People thought I was anorexic, which I'm not, so I got made fun of for that.

Hell even cyber bullying. A certain user, who's name will not be mentioned, harasses me from time to time whether or not they could give a flying fuck about it.

It kinda sucks when people bully you. Even when there's no meaning behind it either. I don't understand the point of bullying. Really, it's horrible and I don't get how people find the pleasure to do this. I stand up to everyone who picks on me. I might be small, I might not be that strong, but I can sure stand up against idiots.
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02/10/2011 03:50 AM (UTC)
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Icebaby Wrote:
People can be cruel.

that.

Hell even cyber bullying. A certain user, who's name will not be mentioned, harasses me from time to time whether or not they could give a flying fuck about it.


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iHotaru
02/10/2011 03:52 AM (UTC)
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Icebaby Wrote:
People can be cruel.

In high school, when I got my ass thrown into a wheelchair for safety purposes due to my condition, people made fun of me... FOR BEING IN A WHEELCHAIR.

My condition was a joke to them. Just because you've never heard of "Syncope" before, doesn't mean I'm making it up. I'm not passing out for gaining attention or faking it. I wouldn't put myself through all this mess just to gain popularity.

I got picked on because my friends were into the Gothic trend and I somewhat followed a little bit, but not to an extreme.

Got picked on for being in marching band. Yet my defense was always "I'm in the drumline, I'm in the cooler part of band."

Got picked on for no apparent reason.

People thought I was anorexic, which I'm not, so I got made fun of for that.

Hell even cyber bullying. A certain user, who's name will not be mentioned, harasses me from time to time whether or not they could give a flying fuck about it.

It kinda sucks when people bully you. Even when there's no meaning behind it either. I don't understand the point of bullying. Really, it's horrible and I don't get how people find the pleasure to do this. I stand up to everyone who picks on me. I might be small, I might not be that strong, but I can sure stand up against idiots.
Hahaha nerd! I'm just jking ce baby but yea so true. I use to go to a preppy school and the students their were so cliquish and stuck up. Also so many two faced people it was just ridiculous. Oh yea people also tease me about being way to skinny but the funny thing was it was the heavy sized people who were teasing me.
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SEGAmaniac7
02/10/2011 03:54 AM (UTC)
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I hate 2-faces

They are cowards
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iHotaru
02/10/2011 03:55 AM (UTC)
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Riyakou Wrote:
iHotaru Wrote:
I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.


Fuck yeah, I have!

All my life!

I still am to this day. I'm just glad I haven't lost my sanity like many others, and did something that I would later regret. I do have much empathy for them, though. I know what it's like in their shoes.
I know right! Why the hell can't people just mind their own fucking business and stop worrying what goes on in other peoples life. Alot of it got to do with todays society. No one is looking out for you only yourself. Sega I also hate racist youtubers. Well racist people in general
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SEGAmaniac7
02/10/2011 04:06 AM (UTC)
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iHotaru Wrote:

No one is looking out for you only yourself


And God
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02/10/2011 05:08 AM (UTC)
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I did get bullied a bit in junior high, but it was only by one guy and to this day I don't know why. Doesn't matter now. After everything I've been through during my deployment if somebody even tried to come at me in an aggressive way they'd probably end up getting punched or stabbed.
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02/10/2011 05:14 AM (UTC)
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This is going to sound conceited or something, but whenever I go to like a party, club, hotel, or bar or whatever I get noticed so it's annoying when I'm trying to go a hotel party because I'll get stopped, when I go to a bar I'll get carded, and then when I'm at a club or a party people will notice me so if a drunken bro feels like being a dick he'll be a dick to me. I don't get it.

I just wish I fit in with the world.

But I mean I go to out a lot it's not like it happens every time, not even ninety percent of the time. But then again maybe this kind of shitty drunken bro behavior happens to every guy who isn't part of the frat. I don't know.
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02/10/2011 05:26 AM (UTC)
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Hmm. I was a fat kid and people always seemed to make fun of me and try to put me down. Girls antagonized me and in middle school it was the same.

I was terrorized by some giant special ed student in 8th grade, but that shit stopped in high school.

I made it a point to let everyone know I was willing to stab them to for some peace and quiet.

Also, I would simply skip class and listen to CD's on the steps.
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02/10/2011 04:42 PM (UTC)
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Bullying happens. Some of us from our own family growing up, so we just leave. But those people never grow up from what I've seen (those doin' the bullying) so why give them the time of day unless they touch you then you have all the more reason to knock some heads (also fun), but either way leave immediately anyway, start your own/better life Actually correction: a slim chance some of them will feel bad about it, I have encountered that. A guy and his girlfriend came up to me and appologized for comments in highschool (I never even took offense for because I always did where my sunglasses). Bullies seem to be in their own personal hell and I wonder if that's why they do what they do?
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02/10/2011 05:58 PM (UTC)
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As a Psychology student, I could safely say that there are many reasons that people bully the weak. One basic one is the lack of a good self-esteem that may be triggered by personal problems that usually come from a dysfunctional family.
However this does not mean that a bully has the right to pick on the weak ones.
yes, I was bullied in high school but only once, it was my only fight I had in high school, but it was triggered by self defence. In my situation, all it took was to really stand up to the guy without any fear or doubt in myself. We got into this fight that the entire school found out. Due to that, this guy was removed for beating up a blind person, which happened to be me.
Luckily though, I was known by everyone in school and I had a lot of friends because I was the drummer for my schools Jazz band. That's why I wasn't scared to fight this guy because I knew that a lot of people would help me out.
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02/10/2011 06:33 PM (UTC)
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I was a quiet kid all my life.

Never was unpopular but I wasnt a shining star either. The occasional shit talker would come along until they got knocked out. Nothing big. By the time I was in gr.12, everybody knew me and loved me anyways because of the honest and nice person I was. I unknowingly and unpurposly became one of the most popular people in the school just by being myself.

Had a few altercations in highschool not because of me getting bullied or bullying, but because I defended kids who were getting bullied. let me say my following story does NOT imply racism as I have Black friends of whom I love to death. One day in Volleyball during PE class in gr.12. This kid kavon (actually nice most of the time) was with a bunch of his long shirt, baggy shorts wearing soldier boy immitating retard friends. We were split up into teams. 6 teams of about 8.

Just so happens my team had 3 or 4 people who are "nerdy" or not the athletic type. So rotation comes around and its obveouse we arent going to win with only myself and a friend Kiel ever played volleyball before and are quite good at it. So this kid is ridiculing my teammates who are missing the ball with his cocky p.diddy fuckbag attitude. and LITERALLY doing the soldier boy superman dance.

I looked at him wierd and said "Are you okay man? looks like you just had a brain aneurysm... you should sit down or call a doctor"

he sais "Yea whatever honkey"

ok...at this point i NEVER heard that word before. I couldnt control myself and I just fell on my knees, clinching my stomach, to the floor laughing.

he diddnt like that so much. So it continues and he keeps razzing my players, eventually I got mad after he made fun of a friend of mine (Eddie) for having glasses and a nerdy appearance. So right off his next serve I jumped (breaking the rules as you cant spike a serve) and spiked it right at him. Helooked at me and I said "you better shut your fucking mouth cockdick"

he sais"you wait till this is over, we'll see honkey"

I contiinue to laugh. So class ends and we go into the change room. He comes in and sais "lets do this!" and attempts to lunge push me from the chest.

....Im 6 foot 4 inches and about 210 lbs at that point. Pretty physically fit too. so he ends up pushing himself back and into a wall while simoltaniously losing his shorts around his knees. I say "Are you really gonna go here over a game of volleyball? its not worth superman diving into the floor and wiring your jaw shut. Because im not gonna stop".

At that point, about 10 of my friends stand up and say "get the fuck outa here or your gonna get ass raped"...

He left and was crying for some reason...
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Another time, The reason escapes me, a friend of mine and a member of a group (i believe they were from albania) were getting into it. I diddnt really have anythign against them until once everybody agreed that Eric and this kid would fight one on one, as soon as eric steps into the circle, about 6 of them came out and were gonna go 6 on 1.

and Like a fucking superheroe (im really dumb sometimes) i come jumping off of a ledge beside the crowd form where I was watching right into the middle of it and challenge all of them...hahaha. I wasnt letting my friend get it.

"WHOS FIRST!?" i yell. got into one of there faces nose to nose, they all walked away.

hahaha. Maybe its cuz im tall and relatively fit for a fight as I worked construction constantly combined with my stupidity, but it worked.
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anyways, every bullying altercation I seem to get into stems from a group of people (usually race based) mouthing off. It works the same for white people too, im not declairing racism, but my group inparticular is just a quiet group so the provoking usually comes from them.

I feel bad for even using the word "black" so forgive me please. But from my personal experience, its people who are generally a single race and have a false sense of being "hard as fuck" that seems to be infectious and turns a group of completely normal nice people, into social retards defending their turf and there "brotha's" which leads to what? nothing but bullshit.

advice to any person who acts like that(regardless of skin colour):

The world doesnt revolve around people like you, NOBODY GIVES A SHIT that you walk down the street with baggy pants or a crooked hat with a swagger. Its ok to dress how you wish, but the attitudes gotta fucking change. Your de-evolution has gone far enough. We should all be family, not morons who act like every person/car or house has constant eyes on you.

Nobody cares. Live your life and be a normal person. Love eachother and help whoever you can, every person is equel. And every bully I ever knew growing up is now an utter failure in life. Dont let that shit get to you.
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02/12/2011 04:16 AM (UTC)
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Hahahah those were some good stories Casselman...

Im a freshman right now and iv'e never gotten bullied in my life.

-I know one day i saw 2kids pushin my cuzin around in school and let me tell you something i cant control my anger like seriously guys...so i watchin them push him around and i see him fall to the ground so i ran and kicked the shit out of both of themgrin but when i got home i got a whoopin' by my parents...tongue

-Then when i was in 8th grade some little white mother f***** would always tell me "you got some oranges or some grapes?" or "i saw your dad outside the home depot yesterday"(im mexican) so soon as he said that last one i whooped his ass and eventually got expelled
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GodlyShinnok
02/12/2011 05:04 AM (UTC)
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I was never bullied but I bullied some classmates in 4th, and 5th grade.
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02/12/2011 12:57 PM (UTC)
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I was bullied a few times in primary school (elementary school) by this prick then he left and did not see him until I was about 15 and alot bigger than I was when i was 10. Any way this kid came to my high school and it was funny cos in primary school i was pretty quiet then came outta my shell in high school so when he tried to bully me around i told him to fuck off and he shit himself. But then i noticed him picking on this kid who wasnt really that popular but i sometimes spoke to so i decided fuck it so i went over and punched the bully a few times and taking out that frustration felt pretty good......until the kid ran and tried to get me expelled it was only when the kid who he was bullying came and told them what had happened that i got downgraded to suspended. good thing was the bully never picked on people anymore
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02/13/2011 07:01 PM (UTC)
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Yes!
In HS there was this guy named Alex who was a fukin fighting machine. Ppl would talk about him getting into fights with multiple guys and being victorious.
Well this son of a bitch didn't like me for some unknown reason. At school I really never had many enemies, I never talked about anyone or you know all that shady stuff, therefore ppl I guess liked me. Well anyways, one day during PE (9th grade I think) we were all playing flag football. I was playing defense and had to block out of all the guys Alex! Well it got rough and we both ended up in the ground, then out of nowhere he punched me in my forehead! So I thought, hmmm should I fight this creep and FOR SURE get my ass kicked? Or just let it go?...I ended up letting it go. Biggest mistake bcuz to this day, I still think about this moment and wish I could go back and jab him in the face...
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02/13/2011 08:28 PM (UTC)
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I have.
Of course, I maintain my sanity and take every insult as a compliment, such as being called ugly or fat. I tell myself to agree to what they just said, no big deal.

But being questioned about my sexual orientation is where people cross the line. I seriously get pissed when someone calls me bi or something of the sort.

What I truly hate is people who are straight up two-faced. Then there's the occasional person who just makes fun of you in front of your face. Every time they did that to me, I'm like "bitch please" in my head.

I'm also not athletic or exactly on the regular weight, so I use my fatness as a threat to others, since I can probably break someone's ribs by sitting on them. I'm not like an extremely obese guy, but I'm just glad nobody makes fun of me about my fatness outside of "You're fat".

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02/13/2011 09:18 PM (UTC)
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I used to get bullied real bad in school, right up to high school.
I was always a goth girl, like the only one in my town, so naturally not too popular. And I've always been skinny and pale as death, so naturally got jeered endlessly in the changing rooms for looking like a scarecrow.

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02/13/2011 09:29 PM (UTC)
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SEGAmaniac7 Wrote:
Riyakou Wrote:
iHotaru Wrote:
I've never been bullied. However I have gotten many racist remarks. I remember this dude would always use to scream "nigger" really loud when he was mad. I wanted to beat his fucking ass at times but I kept my cool in. Another when I had my summer job this guy made a racial slur saying you guys smell like sweaty ape sack.


Fuck yeah, I have!

All my life!

I still am to this day. I'm just glad I haven't lost my sanity like many others, and did something that I would later regret. I do have much empathy for them, though. I know what it's like in their shoes.


Yeah it must be tough getting bullied for being gay.

I feel you man, you just gotta get through man, dont let them hurt you.

Thats their goal, find your weakness,use it against you to see you hurt.


I'm bisexual, but yeah, it is tough.

Particularly in my case, because both straight and gay folks have problems with me.
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02/13/2011 09:38 PM (UTC)
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The only reason I ever get bullied is because I am rather un-sociable, if there is a party going on or something, I will get invited but I would rather stay in and watch football, and I get stick for it.

However it isn't really a big issue. I will usually stick up for somebody being bullied as well, for example, I absolutely hate back chat, if I here one of my friends ridiculing somebody when they are not there I will tell them to man up and say it to their face, or better yet say nothing at all. I dislike racial bullying (Over here in Britain it happens ALOT) basically I find bullying a very cowardly way for people with low self esteem to release their problems on people that are "Easy" targets.
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02/13/2011 10:14 PM (UTC)
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I have, through, I think, my entire elementary school period. And a bit in the beginning of the high school.

Doesn't necessarily have to turn out to be so bad, you know. You get to be automatically excluded from the vulgar crowd and immersed into the benefits of the artistic and intellectual solitude. And, well, occasional, fits of craziness and paranoia, but advantages are rather worthy.
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