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posted06/12/2004 04:13 AM (UTC)by
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Twiztid_Ninja
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02/13/2003 01:52 AM (UTC)
Ok about a month and a half ago my friend X started going out with a girl C. About three weeks after they started going out me X and our other friend T went hang out at C's house. Well when we got there I saw the gorgeous M. The whole night I was basicly mesmorized by her. She is so damn beautiful on the outside and inside. At one point M started walking back and fourth through the living room down the hallway and to her room. Ay one point her mom said she must like you or T because she does that when she likes somebody. She really didn't talk to T that much but as the night went on she kind of opened up to me and talked to me. After that night I didn't see her for awhile till last saturday. C and M came over to X's place. Me X and T were there. I was sitting on the couch and M sat right next to me. The whole time while everyone was talking she didn't talk to them but she talked to me. Then about an hour later we all went to M and C's house. When we got there I sat on the couch and again M sat right next to me. We started watching a movie and everyonece in a while she would talk to me. then se moved over and lied down on the couch and rested her feet on me. she even scooted further down to rest her feet on me even further in. Well after the movie me,T,and X went homw. Now today I call up T and when I was talking to him I brought up M. He said I know something and so does X because C told T and X something that M told C. I asked what do they know and T wouldn't tell me neither would X when I called him. They just said call M tonight so i did. When I called her the first time I asked her how she was doing. Then I said " Look I know we haven't hung out all that much but i think your a cool person. Would you like to go out on a date?" She told me that she is kind of torn on some people and doesn't know. I was like well we can hang out first if you want. Then she got a beep on her phone and asked me to call her back. A little while later I called her back and I said I hope i'm not bothering you I know it's late. she said she was watching a movie. Again I said I was sorry then I said that I thought about it and I said I'd call her tommorrow(Wensday) and if she wants i could bring a few movies over to her house to watch also we can talk and get to know each other better and just do whatever. She said okay call me tommorrow.


So from all of that do you think I have a good shot at hooking up with her. I mean I am so nervous I can't think straight. I mean it seems so complactaed and my nervers ain't helping me think straight. So your thoughts and insight would be gladly appreciated. Thank you
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Sarcasm
06/09/2004 04:12 AM (UTC)
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just show her your avatar and everything will be okay
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Dark_No0B
06/09/2004 04:15 AM (UTC)
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Sarcasm Wrote:
just show her your avatar and everything will be okay


ROFLMFAO, that made me spit out my pepsi and fall off my chair.
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GeorgeJung
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06/09/2004 05:17 AM (UTC)
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She obvisouly likes you. Good shot at the hook up. Let her know you like her. Just dont let her know your that infatuated with her. Dont get played. Being had sucks.
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Sarcasm
06/09/2004 05:19 AM (UTC)
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GeorgeJung Wrote:
She obvisouly likes you. Good shot at the hook up. Let her know you like her. Just dont let her know your that infatuated with her. Dont get played. Being had sucks.


maybe for you grin
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GeorgeJung
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06/09/2004 05:26 AM (UTC)
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Sarcasm Wrote:

GeorgeJung Wrote:
She obvisouly likes you. Good shot at the hook up. Let her know you like her. Just dont let her know your that infatuated with her. Dont get played. Being had sucks.

maybe for you


Huh? you like being played?
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Sarcasm
06/09/2004 05:28 AM (UTC)
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SHHHHHH
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SkeletonofSociety
06/09/2004 06:28 AM (UTC)
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Twiztid_Ninja Wrote:
About three weeks after they started going out me X and our other friend T went hang out at C's house.


Am I the only one that picked on this little fact: The three letters used in the quoted sentence ironically spell out XTC (ecstasy)? I don't know why I found that funny.

Anyway, I'll be serious now. I'm not sure if I'm the best person to be giving out advice right now seeing as how I am in a similar situation, also with an M (a coincidence, I swear). I've been trying to decifer her mixed signals and this may hamper my judgement. But simply by the look of things this is what I got out of this:

1. She is comfortable around you, no doubt there.

2. If her mom was able to pick up on it, there's another good thing going for you.

3. She didn't say no when you did ask her out.

The only thing that seems to be working against you is that she sounds indicisive. If she is testing the waters then you've at least got a shot with her. My advise is to talk to her, get to know her the best you can. If it doesn't work out at least you tried man. Giving up now won't get you the girl, and then you're going to be stuck with the "what ifs", and trust me those will mess you up really bad.
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Alpha_Q_Up
06/09/2004 07:22 AM (UTC)
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OK lets see:

Her mom thinks she likes you

She told everyone and their mother about you

She laid herself on you

You watched movies together

She only wanted to talk to you

She asked you out


I'd say you have absolutely no chance in hell.








Yes I was being sarcastic, WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU!!! Of course she wants you! If I were you, I'd get the hell out of here, and go pick her up, and do something with her. Damnit Twiztid_Ninja, you're making me feel even more depressed that I had to end my high school career single, and that it will most likely stay that way for the rest of the summer, you lucky bastard. Even though you really don't need it, good luck wink
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Twiztid_Ninja
06/09/2004 04:03 PM (UTC)
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Thank you everyone for your thoughts and input. In a way I guess all the signals are there and after much thoughts I think she threw in some things while we talked on the phone that were tests to see how I would react. Like the thing she mentioned about being torn between some people. I just basicly ignored this as if in a indirect way of saying that it didn't matter. On the flip side of it though that is the kind of thing that makes me have doubts about her liking me. I guess in a way that is part of the test seeing if I would give up after hearing something like that. I'm gonna call her around 1:00 p.m. today and see whats up if I can go to her house and hang with her and watch some movies. I tell you what though when that phone is ringing i must be on the verge of a heart attack because it is about to explode. I am just so nervous and I really don't want anything to go wrong. No matter how many signs are there my nervers makes me think too many doubtful thoughts. well wish me luck on today's call......on a side note I wish T and X would tell me what they know cause it would make it a whole lot easier.
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foahchon
06/09/2004 04:16 PM (UTC)
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Ah, teenage love drama. I remember it like it was yesterday...

Anyway, I will first admit that I don't know a whole lot about women, especially teenage girls. They are even more mysterious than their adult/mature peers, since they generally don't have themselves quite figured out yet, but I am generally a very good judge of character.

That said, what does "torn" mean? Does that mean her heart is wandering between one guy and the next? If so, I would advise not giving yourself into her too much unless she can make up her mind. Otherwise, I'm afraid making yourself vulnerable to her will cause you a lot of pain and confusion in the end.
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Twiztid_Ninja
06/09/2004 06:12 PM (UTC)
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I wish it was teenage love drama cause that would be easier but I am 22 and she is 24
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Blade-Tsung
06/09/2004 06:19 PM (UTC)
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Brush ya shoulder off and ask her out
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foahchon
06/09/2004 06:35 PM (UTC)
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Twiztid_Ninja Wrote:
I wish it was teenage love drama cause that would be easier but I am 22 and she is 24


Oh, uh, well, close enough. What I had to say still applies though. If you're gonna give yourself over to her, make sure you're not just the next guy she's ricocheting off of.
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MaxDam
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06/09/2004 06:54 PM (UTC)
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Twiztid_Ninja Wrote:
I wish it was teenage love drama cause that would be easier but I am 22 and she is 24


Even better!! Just go out with her!!! It is crystal clear water that she is interested in you. She just won't say the like that. You have to diserve it. Hang out together and see what happens. wink
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jamheads41
06/09/2004 07:07 PM (UTC)
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Hey Twiztid_Ninja, just look at it this way:

She is obviously a very sexy hotty who is having problems between picking a guy with a big ding-dong and another guy who want's to watch movies instead of trying to impress her who was created by god and was born with a shitload of hormones and they are apparanently a little too strong for you. why don't you just do the Feel Of Life on her and she will definetely want you BAD no matter how much she likes someone else.
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Twiztid_Ninja
06/09/2004 07:56 PM (UTC)
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Well I just tried caling her twice and there is no answere. Then I called X and he said thats funny cause he just finished talking to his girlfriend C and that M was there. He said they do have caller id and when they don't want to talk to someone they just don't answere. So I guess I was a fuckin fool as usual. i actually thought for a split second that things were looking up. I guess thats what I get for thinking that things would turn around for me. I guess all those "signals" she was sending me was just a game or some shit. Well I guess this thread can come to a close now. Thank you to all who responded.
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MaxDam
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06/09/2004 08:01 PM (UTC)
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Giving up already? She knows that you like her. Stop calling her for a while and see if she is going to call you sometime during the week.
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jamheads41
06/09/2004 08:15 PM (UTC)
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Yeah, girls do not liked to be called all the time and when they are getting alot of calls from the same person over and over they get pissed off and want to tease the guy so that he will like her that much more. dont give up right when you're at the center of the tootsy roll.smile she knows you like her alot because of all of them calls and she just wants to make you jealous so that after you sleep with her you won't dump her or somethin'.
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Twiztid_Ninja
06/10/2004 01:17 AM (UTC)
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I must be the biggest stupidest dumb fuck there is. Everyone around me is pissed now cause of the ammount of times I called this girl and they all say I'm harrasing her and she is saying the same thing. I am threw with all these fuckers I know in real life I am threw with the stupid chicks I am done with it all. screw it all
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SkeletonofSociety
06/10/2004 07:25 AM (UTC)
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Twiztid_Ninja Wrote:
I must be the biggest stupidest dumb fuck there is. Everyone around me is pissed now cause of the ammount of times I called this girl and they all say I'm harrasing her and she is saying the same thing. I am threw with all these fuckers I know in real life I am threw with the stupid chicks I am done with it all. screw it all


Dude calm down. Pace yourself. Let a couple of days pass by to try an clear your head of her. Then when things settle somehow get the message across that you feel bad for nagging her (wheter you do or don't). If that goes good just try over, but must slower and not as strong.
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Alpha_Q_Up
06/10/2004 07:47 AM (UTC)
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Twiztid_Ninja Wrote:
I must be the biggest stupidest dumb fuck there is. Everyone around me is pissed now cause of the ammount of times I called this girl and they all say I'm harrasing her and she is saying the same thing. I am threw with all these fuckers I know in real life I am threw with the stupid chicks I am done with it all. screw it all


You really shouldn't have called that much, just wait it out, time will heal things. Call her the day after tomorrow or something. Otherwise welcome to the club, BTW don't hurt yourself over this.
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raven
06/12/2004 02:43 AM (UTC)
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Well you got goof chemestry, so thats a good sign, so just watch movies with her and go from there

Thats all i can think of,

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sean_raleigh
06/12/2004 04:13 AM (UTC)
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Tell her you have some Jerkins palm butter facial scrub you'de like to put on her....

Just kidding.. That's after you land the deal.
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