The majority of our species is dependant on sex. Its actually quite true. Nearly every commericial has sex appeal. Every advertisement. Its sad really.

Guys are raised to be this way, apparently. I have one of the lowest sex drives probably in existence for a male, yet many males I know want to have sex constantly. I would rather not, and I'm not sure why this is.

Girls are the same way. Even if they put on a girly nice-nice act, the majority of girls ARE trying to sleep with people. I blame it on today's pop culture.

Girls and guys both are set about their decision to have sex with someone when they lays on someone. Thus the term "love at first sight" but its not love at all. I don't know why, because I find it sickening, but I'm in that slim 1% margin of guys and girls who aren't like the rest.

Well there are things that happen to guys and girls when they reach that certain age. Everyone goes through puberty. So there are uncontrollable forces like horomones that can influence or cause these decisions. If your with the right person and the chemistry is right then there is nothing wrong with sex.

Redline Wrote: There is one chick on this message board who apparently likes to have online relationships, she wants to have one with me... Sonya05, but she won't even send me a pic... I think we know what that means...

LOL, she's already made it to the R's? She's gone through me and Drfatality already, and god knows how many others.

DrFatality & Temp - I salute you.

Personally, I'm not going to sleep with a girl until I'm married. Mainly for personal reasons. I see sex as something beautiful and to be shared between two people for all of eternity.

Unlike the majority of my friends, I will not date someone on the basis of whether or not they are hot. I look for personality, and I look long-term. Seeing as I am a virgin, and I have decided to be celibate until marriage, if I date someone they must share a similar goal.

I could go further, but this is something I am not comfortable sharing on such a public forum, so I'll leave it as is.

edslightbulb Wrote: It really depends on the girl. If you get a nice, shy girl then chances are she won't make up her mind until she really knows you. Unfortunately its very rare to find a nice, quiet, shy girl who guys are actually really attracted to. And it also has to do with the type of friends they grew up with, how self-confident they are, and also how they were raised.

Um, self-confidence is a good thing. If you want a girl with no self-confidence, then you're already asking for trouble. You have to learn that it's actually a good thing for humans to have a personality. It looks like you want a girl that doesn't believe in herself and has no idea what she wants in life.

Bajar Wrote: DrFatality & Temp - I salute you. Personally, I'm not going to sleep with a girl until I'm married. Mainly for personal reasons. I see sex as something beautiful and to be shared between two people for all of eternity. Unlike the majority of my friends, I will not date someone on the basis of whether or not they are hot. I look for personality, and I look long-term. Seeing as I am a virgin, and I have decided to be celibate until marriage, if I date someone they must share a similar goal. I could go further, but this is something I am not comfortable sharing on such a public forum, so I'll leave it as is.

I'm feel the same way Bajar.