I'm terribly sorry for you, man.
I don't know what to tell you, cause i'm too young, and i don't have that much self control either, but i wanted to let you know i care. If you ever feel like talking, i'm here.
Taking this thing to court is probably the best thing to do, i hope so.

I wish you the best of luck man, it is not right to be kept away from ones son like that.
Godspeed and goodluck.