(Erik) Wrote:
For people who don't love the night scene, it's completely understandable. It'd be ridiculous to assume that everyone in the world is going to pick partying as their favourite thing to do. In fact, it's not even my favourite thing to do. But when I do go out, I don't sit alone on a couch. That seems like the actions that an isolated lame person who lacks social skills would do. You don't know people at parties? Meet them. And it's also understandable, for people to not love alcohol. But the reasons you dislike alcohol and drunks comes across to me as because you are inexperienced, and instead of opening your mind to good company and good drinks, you're writing off the whole scene and being closed minded. And I just think closed minded people who lack social skills are lame. That's why I think you sound lame.
Why go out to a party where you know no one? The only time I can only think where this sounds fun is when you're single and looking for some action time with the person you pick up.
It SUCKS going to a party you have no idea who they are. I've been to multiple parties like that. Despite that I go with my boyfriend, still, neither of us can have a good time unless we know more than half the people that are there. It's not fun when you don't know people. Sure, there's mingling, trying to get to know the scene. Unfortunately, not everyone is too friendly to have this happen. Murcielago Wrote:
Hence, the good company implies good friends. I am stating that going to parties that I do not know anyone, watching them get high and stupidly drunk, not just a slight buzz makes my stomach heave at the thought of entertaining the thought in general. Going out with good friends is enough of an event because even then things have gotten out of control and I have witnessed situations that most people would not like to be reminded of.
It's not cool to see someone be wasted. It's damn annoying. I remember the very first time my boyfriend's good friend hosted a party where his older brother brought along a few other friends... So, we're having a great time up until this loud-mouth drunken girl decides she's going to dry hump any guy she sees as well as demanding that she has sex with a guy people are claiming that will go for her. So she's hiding in this room, basically tossed in there by a few people because she is wasted, to a point where she can't even walk without taking a tumble to the ground. An hour passed and she's still wasted because she somehow got another beer in her hands. She stumbles out of the room, screaming for the guy people were telling her that was going to fuck her and she vomits black.
That was the sign that she needed to be taken home. Mind you, this is the first time I've ever encountered a drunken mess, and this was last year when I was twenty. Now I party with people who knows how to tolerate beer, and neither my boyfriend nor I even drink that much anyways. I haven't touched a beer since December 17th, and probably won't until my brother's wedding which is in two weeks from Saturday.
But I can see your point. You don't like going to parties where it's a mess of a scene to see. Because it really isn't entertaining when half the people are stumbling to stay on their feet, high as fuck, and are vomiting up a storm.
That's why someone invented bon fires... The only dangerous thing to worry about is when you have a pyromaniac throwing fireworks in the fire thinking it would be an awesome scene to see the friends scrambling behind chairs and tree branches. Ninja_Mime Wrote:
I don't know who you guys are partying with. I party with my friends.
Same. 
.... I am happy.... also, I want to play Conker's Bad Fur Day for N64 again.... I remember I never got to beat it... it kinda surprised me how vulgar it was for a cartoonish nintendo game as well.... which of course, just made me like it even more
