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Frikandel Wrote: I was thinking about having some flowers deliverd to her, with a nice looking card with my name and email adres so she can contact me. I hope that that is the way likes to be approached.

Please don't do that. That is horrible. Is there any day she works that are off? You could then put together your fliest gear and best cologne and just go in there and talk to her.

If not, then talk to her in your work uniform, no biggie.

The important thing is u must talk to her. Ask her out face to face, not by a card with ur email, cause when she finds out it's u she'll be like 'um ok that's odd'.

If u think she's hot, but ur too scared to talk to her, walk past her (for whatever reason) and smile and see what she does. If she smiles back, start talking to her, just small talk, and take it from there. End the conversation with something as simple as 'Would you wanna go out and talk some more after work?' or something like that.

Good luck, ask if u need more help.

Thanks man, thats good advice, but thats also the problem, she eats her lunch at her desk, not with the working class. And she never visits the workspace (many safety restriction), but i agree the card is a useless approach, i dunno, its hard speaking to someone who's "locked up" all the time.

PS, great sig

Dont use tricks, just go up to her with confidence (not arrogance) and ask out on a date. If she is interested she will accept if she's not then you will know and can move on with your love life.

First impressions are the most important bro, I would say go with what blade-tsung told you and you should be all right, if this girl has a boyfriend you better watch out because I got my ass whooped one time just for staring at a hot girl, not that you should worry or anything...anyway, you should dress up real nice and go over to her house on a day she gets off or something, good luck dude and don't get your ass whooped.

Thanks man, thats a nice plan, but i have to get to know her better to get her home adres. I'll try and talk to her, but it is almost impossible because she works so isolated. and that's the main problem.

Hey look. If you're afraid someone is gonna see you talking and tell on you don't worry. Just talk to her! If your boss comes up to you while you're talking to her, just turn around, say "Hows this for fired motherfucker?!?" then kickhim in the balls and rescue the dansel in distress, it's as easy as pie.

You really know your stuff!!

Okay Romeo this is the best plan of action ever. All right, first of all you need to grow your hair out really long and bushy and start eating meat a lot. After that, go up and talk to her, but while your guys are talking remember to bite her neck and slap her around a little (be sure to use your finger nails). If she has kids threaten to eat them. Do all of this and before you know you’ll be bangin her like crazy, sure it may sound a bit odd, but it worked out perfectly for the lion on the Discovery Channel. Go for it!!

being honest and selfconfidence while being polite are good keys to make her like you.


Being polite and being a true friend will help alot.

Women enjoy having a nice guy around. Remember being respectful and showing selfrespect are good keys also. Women enjoy nice guys because they are not afraid of them.

Being funloving is cool and showing her a good time.

Women loves guys with depth to them. Women do make great companions and friends. Women are alot of thing but if you are good to them they are usually good to you.

It seems you don't have all that much confidence in yourself in matters such as this, so I don't agree with everyone in the suggestion that you should just go ask her out face to face.

However you should definately not send flowers, nor a card. Especially with an email address. This is real life, not a virtual online meeting so stay away form that at this point.

You do need to find some reason to talk to her though. Not to ask her out, but to be able to converse with her at anytime about anything. So the first point of meeting must be something small, so that atleast she knows you exist. But think about it first...no sudden & stupid questions that you will request 2 seconds after asking.

The question/conversation must be something about the job or the company you work for. This first point of contact is the most important. So keep it simple, yet related to the location you are both in.

A girl likes it when you exactly have balls to confront them. And not speak through gifts that were SENT by you.

Face her... or you'll never get her.

Well..I needed to fill out a few forms, i could have done that at home like any normal human beeing but i went to her in did it at her desk.

So when i asked her for a pen i saw that she had a meeting with the boss and his staff, so i could work my lines just yet, but she knows i excist. We where both very polite, so a very very small base has been made

You better talk to her fast dude. Consider each day you see her, the last day you may see her. You never know what could happen.

You should consider asking her out whenever your boss isn't around and see what she says, if she says no then that means she isn't interested, however, if she hesitates and says nothing, just say "Here's my number if you ever need to talk about anything". and she will take it and call you like a day later, that's all the advice I can give ya bro.

You'd be surprised about the confidence thing.

"So when are you going to give me your number so we can grab some coffee or something?"

But..you can't come off as cocky or it won't work.

Also, try the lion thing.

Thank people, i'll work something out soon ( she to hot to pas on!), Also i'll try the lion thing, sounds like a blast