First of all, a pre-marriage relationship should NEVER be about the sex.

Since I've joined the Air Force, I have found religion. It's amazing how much it has changed my life and made me happy.

Before I joined, though, I was in college with a girl I was very serious with. She was a Catholic, but I was, at the time, Agnostic. This lead her to believe that I had had sex before, and I hadn't, by my own choice. When I got into the relationship, and we had our serious talk, she found out that I was indeed still a virgin, and it made our relationship all the better. However, when I enlisted, she promised me she'd wait for me. Because of this, we gave up on our pact to not have sex.

To this day, I hate myself for ever doing that, since I've started seeing a girl now who is still a virgin, but I can't tell her that I waited for her like she waited for me (if this is indeed it...)

Also, look at all the pregnancy and STD's going around. You don't just get those by playing video games...

Sex was a gift from God (this is my opinion, so feel free to disagree if you honestly think that sex is just something people do...) that is the ultimate sign of comitment and love between a man and a woman. Why waste something so special on a girl (or guy for all the ladies here) who probably is just a one night thing.

I try to live my life straight edge, and I encourage other people to try it to. Life is MUCH more rewarding that way!

As far as the topic itself, yes, my girlfriend cheated on me while I was in Tech School. Turns out she got completly plastered one night and slept with a guy from her class. Her excuse to me was that she loved me so much that she wanted to prove to herself that no matter what, I'd be the only thing she'd ever want. Needless to say that I didn't buy into it, and I am single again.

But seriously... NEVER EVER EVER EVER go into a relationship for the sex. Relationships are just so you can (hopefully) find the one who compliments you completly, and makes everything wonderful.

KStrickRHM Wrote: First of all, a pre-marriage relationship should NEVER be about the sex. Since I've joined the Air Force, I have found religion. It's amazing how much it has changed my life and made me happy. Before I joined, though, I was in college with a girl I was very serious with. She was a Catholic, but I was, at the time, Agnostic. This lead her to believe that I had had sex before, and I hadn't, by my own choice. When I got into the relationship, and we had our serious talk, she found out that I was indeed still a virgin, and it made our relationship all the better. However, when I enlisted, she promised me she'd wait for me. Because of this, we gave up on our pact to not have sex. To this day, I hate myself for ever doing that, since I've started seeing a girl now who is still a virgin, but I can't tell her that I waited for her like she waited for me (if this is indeed it...) Also, look at all the pregnancy and STD's going around. You don't just get those by playing video games... Sex was a gift from God (this is my opinion, so feel free to disagree if you honestly think that sex is just something people do...) that is the ultimate sign of comitment and love between a man and a woman. Why waste something so special on a girl (or guy for all the ladies here) who probably is just a one night thing. I try to live my life straight edge, and I encourage other people to try it to. Life is MUCH more rewarding that way! As far as the topic itself, yes, my girlfriend cheated on me while I was in Tech School. Turns out she got completly plastered one night and slept with a guy from her class. Her excuse to me was that she loved me so much that she wanted to prove to herself that no matter what, I'd be the only thing she'd ever want. Needless to say that I didn't buy into it, and I am single again. But seriously... NEVER EVER EVER EVER go into a relationship for the sex. Relationships are just so you can (hopefully) find the one who compliments you completly, and makes everything wonderful.

Exactly. I believe I was cheated on before. He left me for a hotter girl (tall, blonde, you know, that type) he had been secretly been seeing. Anyway, I'm all over it now.

As for sex before marriage, the guy I'm dating now was man enough to tell me that he wasn't a virgin. He knows that I don't like to date guys who aren't virgins because I'm Catholic and it's just my paradigm. However, it’s not like I'm gonna dump him for it, but I do feel a bit edgy around him at times especially since he's a PDA kinda guy.

KStrickRHM Wrote: First of all, a pre-marriage relationship should NEVER be about the sex. Since I've joined the Air Force, I have found religion. It's amazing how much it has changed my life and made me happy. Before I joined, though, I was in college with a girl I was very serious with. She was a Catholic, but I was, at the time, Agnostic. This lead her to believe that I had had sex before, and I hadn't, by my own choice. When I got into the relationship, and we had our serious talk, she found out that I was indeed still a virgin, and it made our relationship all the better. However, when I enlisted, she promised me she'd wait for me. Because of this, we gave up on our pact to not have sex. To this day, I hate myself for ever doing that, since I've started seeing a girl now who is still a virgin, but I can't tell her that I waited for her like she waited for me (if this is indeed it...) Also, look at all the pregnancy and STD's going around. You don't just get those by playing video games... Sex was a gift from God (this is my opinion, so feel free to disagree if you honestly think that sex is just something people do...) that is the ultimate sign of comitment and love between a man and a woman. Why waste something so special on a girl (or guy for all the ladies here) who probably is just a one night thing. I try to live my life straight edge, and I encourage other people to try it to. Life is MUCH more rewarding that way! As far as the topic itself, yes, my girlfriend cheated on me while I was in Tech School. Turns out she got completly plastered one night and slept with a guy from her class. Her excuse to me was that she loved me so much that she wanted to prove to herself that no matter what, I'd be the only thing she'd ever want. Needless to say that I didn't buy into it, and I am single again. But seriously... NEVER EVER EVER EVER go into a relationship for the sex. Relationships are just so you can (hopefully) find the one who compliments you completly, and makes everything wonderful.

Ahem. I see you're new here, and as such, may not have read the community FAQ. Religious discussion is against forum rules. There's a degree of leniency; you won't get banned for mentioning the word "religion" or "God," and I wouldn't say your post crossed the line, but I just wanted to make you aware of this rule, if yyou weren't already. You're strongly advised to read the community FAQ, which is provided in the top link of this forum.

Sex should only be between a man and a woman who are married to eachother. That means no pre-marital sex, and no cheating during marriage. Cheaters in general when it comes to relationships in my opinion do not deserve to live!

KStrickRHM Wrote: First of all, a pre-marriage relationship should NEVER be about the sex. Since I've joined the Air Force, I have found religion. It's amazing how much it has changed my life and made me happy. Before I joined, though, I was in college with a girl I was very serious with. She was a Catholic, but I was, at the time, Agnostic. This lead her to believe that I had had sex before, and I hadn't, by my own choice. When I got into the relationship, and we had our serious talk, she found out that I was indeed still a virgin, and it made our relationship all the better. However, when I enlisted, she promised me she'd wait for me. Because of this, we gave up on our pact to not have sex. To this day, I hate myself for ever doing that, since I've started seeing a girl now who is still a virgin, but I can't tell her that I waited for her like she waited for me (if this is indeed it...) Also, look at all the pregnancy and STD's going around. You don't just get those by playing video games... Sex was a gift from God (this is my opinion, so feel free to disagree if you honestly think that sex is just something people do...) that is the ultimate sign of comitment and love between a man and a woman. Why waste something so special on a girl (or guy for all the ladies here) who probably is just a one night thing. I try to live my life straight edge, and I encourage other people to try it to. Life is MUCH more rewarding that way! As far as the topic itself, yes, my girlfriend cheated on me while I was in Tech School. Turns out she got completly plastered one night and slept with a guy from her class. Her excuse to me was that she loved me so much that she wanted to prove to herself that no matter what, I'd be the only thing she'd ever want. Needless to say that I didn't buy into it, and I am single again. But seriously... NEVER EVER EVER EVER go into a relationship for the sex. Relationships are just so you can (hopefully) find the one who compliments you completly, and makes everything wonderful.

Now that was a post!

I have been cheated on before.. Just don't feel like talking about it..

Life basically sucks. Blah.

Indeed.

I've been cheated on before, AND i've been used for my money and then dumped. It sucks.

i wont let it happen again. Its careful selection for me now.

To xcarnagex. Thanks, I should have been more... i dunno... alert, I guess. I've read the stuff before (this is the third time I've been a member here, but this dang thing doesn't have a password recovery system... HINT HINT!!!), but I guess I must have skipped over the part about religion.

I guess I just don't understand why religion is taboo but politics is just fine, since politics is like a form of organized religion to me (especially you dirty Kerry fans )

I've been cheated on before and it's the worst feeling in the world in my mind.

I would kill myself before I ever cheat on a girl! That's a fact.

I have been cheated on quite a bit. And of all the ex-girlfriends who cheated on me, I firmly believe only one of them was truly sorry for ever cheating on me. Here's the thing with her. She was my first girlfriend. When we first met five years ago, I was almost 16, and she was 13. Well, there was a lot of drama in our relationship, but no sex. Well, later, I find out that she's been dating another guy. I was pissed. Normally, I'm not rude to females, but my feelings were so hurt that I told her that "You made your bed, now sleep in it." I know it wasn't right for her to cheat on me, but I didn't realize that it was just as wrong for me to make such a comment until much later. We didn't see or hear from each other for a year and a half. In that time period, I had about three or four girlfriends, and my relationship with them wasn't very pleasant. I learned from my ex that the guy she cheated on me with ended up cheating on her while servicing four hos. It was then that I realized that she probably realized how much she really loved me. After she broke up with her boyfriend that she was seeing after our reunion, I decided that I wanted to get back together with her; mainly to see if she would cheat on me again. Well, we got back together, and she didn't cheat on me. We did get into an argument on Christmas Eve, though, and me, being the dumbass that doesn't think before I speak, accused her of possibly cheating on me again. I normally don't cry, but I did after this argument, namely, right after my false accusation. I looked in her eyes, and the look on her face was one of true sorrow. At that moment, she told me that she sacredly swore to me that she'd never cheat on me again. The look on her face clearly told me how serious she was when she said it. But we broke up in May of last year, got back together the next month, and broke up again last October. Both of us have been laying low on dating and relationships ever since, but I'd have to say with all honesty that I am a bit lonely without a girlfriend.

Girls love their daily doseage of Vitamin C baby!

But in all seriousness, I've never been cheated on, and hopefully never will. Because I get angered VERY easily sometimes. So if that happened I would go psychotic. But my advice to the topic creator is don't be too close to a girl you date, don't ever get attached or tell them personal business. Just keep in boundaries of being friends (with priveledges ). Because by tellnig them your whole life, they could spread bad news about you, and could drive you to do worse things (suicide, homicide, etc)and believe me, nothings worth it. Suicide is a cowards way out, and always remember that, it's for people that can't take life and whine over little tihngs when handicapped military soldiers enjoy life and saviour it. And murder will give you a 3 minute satisfaction (if you REALLY hated the desired one) then you will regret it for the rest of your life.

And if she did cheat on you, don't throw a fit, just act calm & cool, like you own the world. She will be mystified (because sometimes girls like confrontations and drama) and may even want you more. Don't throw a fit, don't do anything to regret, and don't get too attached at your current age (things get serious at 23+)and enjoy life. Don't worry about girls, they're humans too, so you could be friends with them. Saviour your teen years like I am, these will be the days you always remember before reality comes up and puts you in it's grasp. Don't get down you don't date yet, be happy! You got no drama! And no drama=happyness am I correct?

Still haven't, but I think my plan worked already, so if I do it won't be actually "cheating". I didn't call "that girl" all summer, and my friend said that she told him "I don't really care about Max anymore". So "whoopee". Gotta find a girl that I can have a relationship with, that isn't based on looks or making out so fucking much!

I caught my would-be-girlfriend in bed with another guy. It's awkward. Very awkward. And I was holding flowers. Surprisingly, while it was a blow, I didn't blow up. I laughed my head off and left to think things through, laughing all the way. Fatality.

Laughing while holding flowers! Now thats a sight.

Bloodline666 Wrote: I would kill myself before I ever cheat on a girl! That's a fact.

Me too

Bloodline666 Wrote: Normally, I'm not rude to females, but my feelings were so hurt that I told her that "You made your bed, now sleep in it." I know it wasn't right for her to cheat on me, but I didn't realize that it was just as wrong for me to make such a comment until much later.

Dude, you had every right to make a comment like that, she fuckin cheated on you, I think a verbal comment wouldn't do half the justice, but thats just the wayt I fell bc all of my gfs cheated on me.

I'll admit that yes I have cheated. And there's no worse feeling on Earth. I have no excuse for what happened, but alchohol was involved. But like I said, I have no excuse for my actions. I told my boyfriend the next day and he broke up with me. We ended up getting back together a few months later for a brief amount of time, but you could tell that he never truly forgave or forgot what had happened. I tried to be the best girlfriend I could be, but it was no use. I had broken his heart, and there was nothing I could do to mend it back together.

Wow. I know that feeling. Fatality.

my best friend cheated on his girlfriend with her best friend. The evil bitch denied it but then he showed me the letters she wrote to him. Stupid whore tried to reel me in because her best friend(the one that was cheated on) grew to like me because i took her side. Then the slut turned her best friend against me and went after the next guy she had a crush on. Worst situation of my life being in the middle of everything.

My Story:

Once upon a time I got tired of dating chicks for a month or so and then dumping them. So I decided that I would remain committed to the next chick I dated.

I dated a girl that lived an hour and a half to 2 hours away. Not to far, but I still consider it long distance.

No matter how pissed off I got I didn't leave her

No matter how much weight she gained (and trust me...she went Crisco on me) I didn't leave her.

However a little bit over 6 months into the relationship she began to get friendly with her ex-boyfriend. She had also verbally expressed she still was not over him, why I didn't listen I don't know, I was 18 and stupid at the time.

I tolerated her cheating twice and on the second time she promised she would remain faithful. I found an e-mail (since we shared e-mail accounts...like I said I was 18 and stupid) of her talking to a different guy who she also expressed she had interest in about her fooling around with her ex-boyfriend again.

After the third time I said I'm through, and I ended the relationship.

The end result:

I learned quite a bit about women through the experience, however I remained in an embittered and hateful state of mind toward women for a little over a year.


My honest to God advice is don't get into a relationship with a girl just to get a girlfriend. On the flip side I have never cheated on a girl.

Nope, I've never cheated on any of my ex-girlfriends, but if I were to believe the rumors, they've all cheated on me.

I'm pretty sure the first one cheated on me 'cause she dumped me for a guy a few weeks after meeting him, so it would make sense.

My second girlfriend's BEST FRIEND swore to me that she cheated on me, so I honestly don't know what she had to gain with making something up about her best friend.

My third ex probably cheated on me with her ex. There were days where she would "disappear" all morning and afternoon long (she claimed she was working, but to not have time for a PHONE CALL? Sounds suspicious, IMO), and her ex worked less than a block away from where she worked.

As for the last one, I heard the same rumor about 4 times from 4 entirely different sources. I've explained my reasons for believing/not believing many times before, so who knows. What I AM convinced of is that they hooked up after we broke up, so that makes me believe that cheated on me even more.

As for me, I've NEVER cheated on any girlfriend, despite that fact that I had plenty of opportunities to do so with each of 'em. It fuckin' pisses me off that when one is single, it's incredibly difficult to find someone. But once one is attached to someone else, the ladies suddenly appear in droves.

Are you a guy?

Yeah heh heh whats funny is that I tend to see that women want everyone to want them even if they have someone.

However guys are similar, we go after taken chicks because we want to show the guy we're better than them and we'll prove it by taking the girl.

Also, a little fact for the thread, Now statistics show that Women cheat more than men now due to the fact that they are in the work place.

LoganMK Wrote: Are you a guy?

Depends on how hot you are

Here's another "fact" (and I apologize if somebody else already mentioned it in this thread):

When a guy cheats, it's merely out of their "need" (I know that's no excuse, but believe it or not, they honestly believe that it's normal). In other words, the only "emotion" involved is horniness. But when a girl cheats, it's 'cause their are actual feelings involved. They CARE about the person.

Or so I've heard.

LoganMK Wrote: Are you a guy? place.

Says male... I can only speculate. And concerning cheating... it's all bull. Guys cheat cause they want "something better", even if it really isn't. Girls cheat because THEY want "Something better", even if THAT'S not what it really is. Just stick with your beau. It saves a lot of controversy (and expensive court battles over who gets the fish-shaped plastic dinner plates.) Fatality.

Oh don't worry guys can only rank up to a 3 anyway, I'm a 2 on a scale of 10 trust me.

But reason I asked was because I was sterotyping due to the female banner and avatar.

hahaha fish dinner plates. OWNED!