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posted06/23/2004 08:30 PM (UTC)by
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Torchia
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Damn this is old. I sucked back then.
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Alright, so. Here is my problem..

I went camping on the weekend, and while I was there, I met a really nice girl. We got to know eachother, and I kind of got to like her.

Now, my friends were trying to get me to ask her out, and she heard, so she asked what we were talking about. I pretended like it was nothing..

She had to go for a few minutes, and during that time, I had to leave for good.

So basically, I have a big crush on this girl, and I will probably never see her again. What should I do?

I mean.. Should I go and see her next chance I get? (Which will be hard to get there) Should I just let it go and forget about it? Please help me!
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 •06/22/2004 04:10 AM (UTC) •
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Please tell me you atleast got her name...if you did and she lives in your town (never know Campers can come from anywhere) you can look her up can call her...if you dont know her name...I dont know man. Are you done with camp completely now?
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Torchia
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 •06/22/2004 04:17 AM (UTC) •
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Raining_Smoke Wrote:
Please tell me you atleast got her name...if you did and she lives in your town (never know Campers can come from anywhere) you can look her up can call her...if you dont know her name...I dont know man. Are you done with camp completely now?


I got her name.. First name.. And she doesn't live in town, because she was working at the camp. And I am currently done with camping for who knows how long..

Thanks for the advice anyway..

Should I maybe try to take a few busses there this weekend?
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 •06/22/2004 04:20 AM (UTC) •
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Try asking people you knew from Camp if they knew her personally and try to get a last name and possibly even a phone number. Hope it works out for you man.
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Torchia
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 •06/22/2004 04:20 AM (UTC) •
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Raining_Smoke Wrote:
Try asking people you knew from Camp if they knew her personally and try to get a last name and possibly even a phone number. Hope it works out for you man.


Thanks for the support...
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UReiko
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 •06/22/2004 04:30 AM (UTC) •
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She was working at the camp? How old was she, or do you know? And how far away is the camp from where you live?
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Torchia
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 •06/22/2004 04:40 AM (UTC) •
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UREIKO Wrote:
She was working at the camp? How old was she, or do you know? And how far away is the camp from where you live?


She was the same age as me. She was just working at the ice cream shop that was there, and its about a 2 hour drive there..
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 •06/22/2004 04:50 AM (UTC) •
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Oh... I really want to help ya man, LOL. How come you didn't get to stay longer?
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 •06/22/2004 04:51 AM (UTC) •
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This may be just MY opinion, but here goes:

From personal experience (and from seeing how it's been for those around me), the long-distance thing (I'd say a 2-hour drive sorta qualifies) DOESN'T work unless it was a relationship that had been established for some time and later on one of the 2 had to move.

At the same time, you'll never know if it would've worked or failed, so unless you wanna live with that doubt, I say give it a shot.
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Torchia
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 •06/22/2004 04:51 AM (UTC) •
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Damn school..
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 •06/22/2004 05:36 AM (UTC) •
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You said you would probably never see her again. Who cares, your young dude, so am I, I know how it goes, your gonna have plenty of times like this ahead of you and you should know that there will be plenty of other oppurtunities just like this so don't worry about it too much.
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 •06/22/2004 06:19 AM (UTC) •
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If she doesn't live in the same town as you, just let it go. I'm not saying it it couldn't turn into anything, but there really is no way you could develop an intimate relationship with her from that much of a distance(at least not at that age).

And fear not, I won't judge you by your age. If you had not said you were young, I most likely wouldn't have figured it out, due to your decent grammar. I mean, you punctuate even. smile
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 •06/22/2004 08:33 AM (UTC) •
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Damn torch, I know exactly how you feel. Earlier this year, I met this one chick at my job, she was extremely georgeous and mature, we got off really well, I worked with her for two weeks so we got to know each other fairly well, but then they laid off alot of people after that, and I'm pretty sure she was one of them cause I haven't seen her since sad. And what made it worse is that I gave her my number, but I moved the next week, I know where she goes to school, it's not far from me at all, I was thinking of showing up one day when she was finished to suprise her, but I never did.
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 •06/22/2004 05:49 PM (UTC) •
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TemperaryUserName Wrote:
And fear not, I won't judge you by your age. If you had not said you were young, I most likely wouldn't have figured it out, due to your decent grammar. I mean, you punctuate even.


Thanks...

You see, shes pretty much the only girl I have got so close to. I'm not really the kind of guy girls like to hang out with or date... I don't know what it is, but she seemed to like me...
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 •06/22/2004 06:28 PM (UTC) •
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Don't worry dude, I know how that whole thing with girls goes. Your not one of the popular guys but you finally find someone and you think it might be the one, don't worry about it, once you get into high school everything will change, trust me... I'm about to find that out for myself in August.
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 •06/22/2004 06:51 PM (UTC) •
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From a fellow Canadian. Go when you get the chance, back to the camp to see her. If it's meant to be (deep in your heart you believe it is)go for it, if not, then there are plenty of fish in the sea for a young man like you.
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 •06/22/2004 08:13 PM (UTC) •
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What i would do is just phone the camp and ask to speak to her, you know her first name and that she works in the ice cream store, the person who answers the phone is most likely going to know who you mean, when you ask to speak to her and then you can get her home number. its really that simple no getting buses for two hours or searching through phones books for her. anyway good luck on getting in contact with her, if you pass it up who knows what could have happend.
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 •06/22/2004 09:58 PM (UTC) •
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I would be getting to know her a bit more and see her a bit more often before you let your friends convince you to "ask her out" on an impulse.
Your friends aren't doing you any favours by urging you that way, especially when it gets your hopes up and you don't see her often or maybe even again.
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Torchia
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 •06/23/2004 03:12 AM (UTC) •
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Jonin01 Wrote:
I would be getting to know her a bit more and see her a bit more often before you let your friends convince you to "ask her out" on an impulse.
Your friends aren't doing you any favours by urging you that way, especially when it gets your hopes up and you don't see her often or maybe even again.


Thanks, but I probably wasn't going to ask her out then... Thats why I pretended I didn't know what she was talking about, and I really like 'the-ones' idea, but I can't seem to bring myself to call her...

Augh! Too complicated for me!
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Torchia
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 •06/23/2004 03:18 AM (UTC) •
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OH SHIT!

Now I'm fucking pissed!

I sure as hell hope I'm wrong! She didn't acctually give me her name for say..

It was one of her freinds who told me what her name was, and I never acctually bothered to ask her if it was true! Damn! Her friends were bugging me the whole time I was there about her, so they may have been lying about the name!

SHIT!

I hope I'm wrong!
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Torchia
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 •06/23/2004 05:51 PM (UTC) •
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Its been almost a week, and I can't seem to stop thinking about her. Augh! Do you think the thoughts of her will ever fade away!?
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 •06/23/2004 06:50 PM (UTC) •
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torchia Wrote:
Its been almost a week, and I can't seem to stop thinking about her. Augh! Do you think the thoughts of her will ever fade away!?


It's really hard to say. If you really like her, you should find a way to get in touch with her, or maybe you'll get lucky and you'll see her somewhere else. Other wise, just try and forget and move on, there will be others who come along in her place. Good luck bud! Everything always works out eventually.wink
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 •06/23/2004 08:00 PM (UTC) •
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TheMkGeek Wrote:

torchia Wrote:
Its been almost a week, and I can't seem to stop thinking about her. Augh! Do you think the thoughts of her will ever fade away!?

It's really hard to say. If you really like her, you should find a way to get in touch with her, or maybe you'll get lucky and you'll see her somewhere else. Other wise, just try and forget and move on, there will be others who come along in her place. Good luck bud! Everything always works out eventually.


Everyone always says that, yet here I am, wondering what the hell I should do
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 •06/23/2004 08:30 PM (UTC) •
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torchia Wrote:

TheMkGeek Wrote:

torchia Wrote:
Its been almost a week, and I can't seem to stop thinking about her. Augh! Do you think the thoughts of her will ever fade away!?

It's really hard to say. If you really like her, you should find a way to get in touch with her, or maybe you'll get lucky and you'll see her somewhere else. Other wise, just try and forget and move on, there will be others who come along in her place. Good luck bud! Everything always works out eventually.

Everyone always says that, yet here I am, wondering what the hell I should do


Look, it's up to you and only you to do what ever you feel is right to do. You've gotten many replies with advice, now it's up to you. Maybe you should talk to someone other than us here on this board who may offer you a bit more help.
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