If a girl's had 10+ sex partners, what are the chances she'll stay with you? *Sigh* My "one and only, happily ever-after" fairy tale endings continue to disintegrate into the vast and harsh reality of this twisted world. Can't people love one and only one person till death do they part? Divorce has sky-rocketed. Celebrities can't last three years. There's the whole homosexual marriage issue. Yep. Marriage has been screwed (part the pun) out of the picture. Regardless, I'm never getting divorced and the only sex partner I'll have is my wife (and if at first it sucks, we'll have 60+ wonderful years to get it right.) Fatality.

Garlador Wrote: If a girl's had 10+ sex partners, what are the chances she'll stay with you? *Sigh* My "one and only, happily ever-after" fairy tale endings continue to disintegrate into the vast and harsh reality of this twisted world. Can't people love one and only one person till death do they part? Divorce has sky-rocketed. Celebrities can't last three years. There's the whole homosexual marriage issue. Yep. Marriage has been screwed (part the pun) out of the picture. Regardless, I'm never getting divorced and the only sex partner I'll have is my wife (and if at first it sucks, we'll have 60+ wonderful years to get it right.) Fatality.

People change, no one stays the same forever or for 2 years even. Some people grow apart quicker than others, part of a big reason divorce has sky rocketed is because it's not hard to do. And because of the other reasons I made, see what I mean. How do you think people still marry after their wife/husband has been dead, people move on and people view life differently. Sure you will never share the same love for each person, but you can always develop a new one.

Everyone has conflicts. EVERYONE. No exceptions. You can either run from those conflicts (divorce) or face them and work together. No conflict is without a solution. Love takes work. Fatality.

Garlador Wrote: Everyone has conflicts. EVERYONE. No exceptions. You can either run from those conflicts (divorce) or face them and work together. No conflict is without a solution. Love takes work. Fatality.

Cheating is a big conflict, if you can forgive your partner for something like that then that's good(i think). I know I couldn't though, every conflict can be resolved. But not everyones willing to take the time to deal with it, so it's not as easy as that.

Well, to each his own. My girlfriend cheated on her, and I forgave her and the years after that were the best I ever had. I don't know, though; if it happened a whole lot, things might have been different. Fatality.

I should be clear on something here. When I gave my statement about girls that have been with 10+ people are better... i'm talking about they are better as a fling type of thing (because the sex is better). I wasn't talking about someone you wanna marry. Who want's to marry a girl that's been with half the people you know? I'm just talking about sex! Anyway, now that I have settled down and have a girlfriend, it's a girl that's only been with like 3 other guys. And really, she wasn't as good as the girls i've had flings with that have "been around", but so what. When you really love someone, it doesn't really matter. Plus, you teach her stuff anyway!

Well, I'm the perfect example of why people think it's a bad thing. I'm a single 20 year old parent. You know what I think though? Fuck them for considering that a bad thing, I'm proud as to be a father and love my son even though it wasn't planned. His mother and I get along fine now and he has both of his parents raising him together (even if we are just mates), I don't see the "problem".

I personally think it's fine. First things first - If both people are virgins on their honey moon, here's a reality check, the sex will not be mind blowing because neither partner knows what the hell they're doing. Sex is like anything else, you need to get good at it through practice. That being said, I know the first time is special, I still remember mine like it was yesterday even though it was atleast 6 years ago now, but the sex itself was pretty lousy looking back on it. There's a good chance that a few years down the track when the 2 of them are more mature (sexually, that is), they'll look back at their honeymoon and laugh at how nervous and unco the sex was. Not the memory you'd want of your honey moon, atleast not the memory I'd want of it.

Now, I do think that loving the person you're with makes the experience better even if the sex isn't the best you've ever had, but what difference does marriage make to the feeling of love? None what so ever, I'm sure. Do you love the person more after you marry them? Of course not, because you wouldn't have married them if you weren't already 100% in love. Unless you're stupid or in it for different reasons, I guess.

Anyways, I think premarital sex is fine as long as the 2 people involved are mature enough to understand the risks. Using protection isn't 100% effective, I can tell you all about that one