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Three way relationships........good-bad? What's your take. My experience is...
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posted08/30/2004 10:27 PM (UTC)by
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The reason I ask is that I was seeing this guy(I'm gay he's Bi) and we had started talking a more serious relationship and he told me he wanted to be in a three way relationship with a specific girl he was seeing before me as well as me. He and this girl had broken up months before he and I started hanging out and she had already had another boyfriend and dumped him a few weeks before his asking me this question. I knew the girl and she and I got along really great. Well I said no and it was kinda the beginning of the end of the relationship. He ended up alone and the girl and I became good friends. So I was wondering if anyone had been in similar situation? Can it work out? If you haven't been in this situation(or similar) would you?
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 •08/26/2004 07:00 PM (UTC) •
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Well... I've heard they never work out in the end! Jelousy and other problems can only come from this endeavor. I say don't do it!


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 •08/26/2004 09:06 PM (UTC) •
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I have never been in that situation, but i think jealousy is always a big issue in a threeway relationship. Just my 50 pence.

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 •08/27/2004 06:40 AM (UTC) •
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Well, you get to meet Steve from Springer!
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•08/27/2004 07:07 AM (UTC) •
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I wouldn't get into one. It doesn't seem like it would work at all!
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 •08/27/2004 04:30 PM (UTC) •
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Greenroom Wrote:
The reason I ask is that I was seeing this guy(I'm gay he's Bi) and we had started talking a more serious relationship and he told me he wanted to be in a three way relationship with a specific girl he was seeing before me as well as me. He and this girl had broken up months before he and I started hanging out and she had already had another boyfriend and dumped him a few weeks before his asking me this question. I knew the girl and she and I got along really great. Well I said no and it was kinda the beginning of the end of the relationship. He ended up alone and the girl and I became good friends. So I was wondering if anyone had been in similar situation? Can it work out? If you haven't been in this situation(or similar) would you?


Aww honey you know you're better than that. We haven't talked a lot, but from what little we did interact and that cute picture of yours, you deserve a guy who is going to give you his full attention 100% and all of his love, not split it between you and someone else.

No matter how trusting you are of the person you are with, the fact that are making love with someone else, telling someone else that they love them will hurt you. And for that matter, what would stop this gentleman, from bringing another person into the relationship?

You're worth so much more babe, and I'm happy that you didn't let his selfishness get the best of you or this girl. Just wait, hun, your Prince Charming is out there! smile
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 •08/27/2004 08:03 PM (UTC) •
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Kitana4ever Wrote:

Greenroom Wrote:
The reason I ask is that I was seeing this guy(I'm gay he's Bi) and we had started talking a more serious relationship and he told me he wanted to be in a three way relationship with a specific girl he was seeing before me as well as me. He and this girl had broken up months before he and I started hanging out and she had already had another boyfriend and dumped him a few weeks before his asking me this question. I knew the girl and she and I got along really great. Well I said no and it was kinda the beginning of the end of the relationship. He ended up alone and the girl and I became good friends. So I was wondering if anyone had been in similar situation? Can it work out? If you haven't been in this situation(or similar) would you?

Aww honey you know you're better than that. We haven't talked a lot, but from what little we did interact and that cute picture of yours, you deserve a guy who is going to give you his full attention 100% and all of his love, not split it between you and someone else.

No matter how trusting you are of the person you are with, the fact that are making love with someone else, telling someone else that they love them will hurt you. And for that matter, what would stop this gentleman, from bringing another person into the relationship?

You're worth so much more babe, and I'm happy that you didn't let his selfishness get the best of you or this girl. Just wait, hun, your Prince Charming is out there!


Thanks Chickadee, I appreciate it very much. It's a mess sometimes, I was also propositioned by a married couple for a little fun...he was hot too. I turned them down as well. It just sounded cheap. Even Cheaper than a 3 person realationship. Now two other guys??? hmm..
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 •08/27/2004 09:50 PM (UTC) •
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Wow. I'm actually in the same situation myself.
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 •08/27/2004 11:42 PM (UTC) •
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I find polyamory fascinating in concept, or it least when it's purely sexual in nature, but a three-way romantic relationship is pretty silly.
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 •08/28/2004 12:55 AM (UTC) •
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lets see.

one chick and one dude, it'd be... (0_o).

two chicks, they both would be making out meanwhile i'll be there saying "um, hello! im the one with a dick here!"

two dudes... (o_0).

im not gay (not that theres anything wrong with that, unlike others on this forum, i have the utmost respect for homosexuals).

but um, i was put in a situation, my then girlfriend stacey wanted me and her 'friend', whom i found out was someone who she was cheating on me with, wanted a fuck pile, i denied, because, i just, eh, i just dont think somthing like that would work out.

i guess, moral standards are just what gets to me i soppuse (:-\, and if jessica (my girlfriend now) asked me, i guess i would deny again.
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 •08/28/2004 12:55 AM (UTC) •
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I say stick with it... This guy won't be Bi for much longer, there is no such thing as 'Bi' If you're a dude & you get or give dick to another dude you are a Homosexual, so I say stay because something will give... Best wishes... chances are the girl doesnt Know yet so once she does find out he'll run to you man...
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 •08/28/2004 05:58 PM (UTC) •
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Don`t waste your time. The above poster has serious flaw to his logic. He is telling you to settle for second best when the girl rejects him then he will go to you. So its like settling for a bike when you need a car. If it was worth it you wouldn`t need to ask for peoples opinions, which shows your own doubt and unhappiness. And if he needs both of you to be content, his moral base is more self centered than most. Putting you and she into a situation where you may not even get along is a red flag from the starting gate. Drop the situation while you can and save yourself some grace, self respect, and emotional state.
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 •08/28/2004 06:05 PM (UTC) •
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Hmmm, well Im straight but if some chick wanted me to have a threesome with another guy, Id say hell no. It might be the same, but I don't know. Well like K4E said, your Queen Charming is out there.
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 •08/28/2004 06:10 PM (UTC) •
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buijon Wrote:
Don`t waste your time. The above poster has serious flaw to his logic. He is telling you to settle for second best when the girl rejects him then he will go to you. So its like settling for a bike when you need a car. If it was worth it you wouldn`t need to ask for peoples opinions, which shows your own doubt and unhappiness. And if he needs both of you to be content, his moral base is more self centered than most. Putting you and she into a situation where you may not even get along is a red flag from the starting gate. Drop the situation while you can and save yourself some grace, self respect, and emotional state.


too late... plus if he likes the guy he should not mind being second string batter...
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 •08/28/2004 10:52 PM (UTC) •
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Greenroom Wrote:
The reason I ask is that I was seeing this guy(I'm gay he's Bi) and we had started talking a more serious relationship and he told me he wanted to be in a three way relationship with a specific girl he was seeing before me as well as me. He and this girl had broken up months before he and I started hanging out and she had already had another boyfriend and dumped him a few weeks before his asking me this question. I knew the girl and she and I got along really great. Well I said no and it was kinda the beginning of the end of the relationship. He ended up alone and the girl and I became good friends. So I was wondering if anyone had been in similar situation? Can it work out? If you haven't been in this situation(or similar) would you?


Well... like most people I don't think three way relationships work. This bi guy seems to have gone for the best of both worlds. While that's his right, I don't think it's a good idea to step into this if you're not 100% sure of your feelings. That's my measuring stick for doing anything romantically or sexually... if I'm not 100% sure of it, forget it, it won't happen.

I hope you're feeling better, btw. :)

Cheers,
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 •08/28/2004 11:27 PM (UTC) •
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Alpha_Q_Up Wrote:
Hmmm, well Im straight but if some chick wanted me to have a threesome with another guy, Id say hell no. It might be the same, but I don't know. Well like K4E said, your Queen Charming is out there.
That's funny, that's not what you said to me on Aim a few night ago, Lover. *by the way, im joking*
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 •08/28/2004 11:44 PM (UTC) •
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Alpha_Q_Up Wrote:
Well like K4E said, your Queen Charming is out there.


Didn't he say he was gay?
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•08/29/2004 12:37 AM (UTC) •
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He'd either end up with you or with the girl. Which would suck both ways(ha...) because if he went with her(obviously bad) and if he went with you then you wouldn't be able to trust him in your relationship. Yup, that's what I'd say. You did the right thing by not stickin with him and you'll find your guy! Mmmhmmm
-Me, The Almighty (lol jk)
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 •08/30/2004 10:25 AM (UTC) •
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chan_ming Wrote:

Alpha_Q_Up Wrote:
Well like K4E said, your Queen Charming is out there.

Didn't he say he was gay?


It's a joke, prince charming is for girls, and queens... nm
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 •08/30/2004 05:28 PM (UTC) •
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good gosh that banner is distracting.

um, anyway, my opinion the concepts of "serious" and "3-way" do not mix. If you were to engage in it keep it as a sexual thing not a relationship. Too much drama to keep up with.

In addition homosexual sex relationships have the tendency of callapsing after 6 month.

NOTE: That statement is not absolute.

so basically its a matter of how much are you willing to gamble for a 3-way?
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 •08/30/2004 05:49 PM (UTC) •
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He'd either end up with you or with the girl. Which would suck both ways(ha...) because if he went with her(obviously bad) and if he went with you then you wouldn't be able to trust him in your relationship. Yup, that's what I'd say. You did the right thing by not stickin with him and you'll find your guy! Mmmhmmm
-Me, The Almighty (lol jk)


JK? Too bad I'm so available. wink


~Thanks everyone for the advice and insight. This actually was an issue that had happened a couple years ago back home in Illinois, but circumstances brought up the memories and the guy and girl again. He was the first guy I had a relationship with and she was actually really awesome and we always had a blast together.

Thanks again guys.
much love to ya.
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 •08/30/2004 06:47 PM (UTC) •
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Alpha_Q_Up Wrote:

chan_ming Wrote:

Alpha_Q_Up Wrote:
Well like K4E said, your Queen Charming is out there.

Didn't he say he was gay?

It's a joke, prince charming is for girls, and queens... nm


Don't worry Alpha, I got the joke...

Anyway GR, I have yet to see a triangle work, and I've seen it attempted a few times. Sometimes it ended on good terms but most of the time they end pretty badly. Don't try and make him choose between the two of you, but try and show him that eventually he may have to (I don't know if that makes much sense, but it was the best way I could write it).
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 •08/30/2004 10:27 PM (UTC) •
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not only can three way relationships hurt everyone involved, its also wrong. Love is supposed to be between two people, not three.
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