I think she does. The fact yous have so much fun together is a big sign. If you're comfortable around her, then you really might have a good connection.

Wait.....since when could I give good advice?

ya she does, trust go over to her house, and give her anal sex

sounds like all she wants is to hang out. I don't think it was as much flirting as much joking around.

mklord2003 Wrote: ya she does, trust go over to her house, and give her anal sex

Dude! He's asking for real advice here.

From what you've siad, I do think she likes you. If you don'twant you're friendship to change then don't move to quickly becuase relationships change you're prespective of a person.

Holy crap! Whats happened to me! I'm giving good advice! Andit is awesome!!!!!

In order to give you any advice, I'd have to first know what you mean by 'on and off'. Ie: how many times has this happened?

True. And how serious does it get. And how long does it go on for.

She could be a flirt.

Naw, I've known her for two years. She's far from a flirt. She's the only girl that I've ever dated that is so shy, when I kiss her, it can't be around anyone because if it is, her face will turn bright red and stay that way until we're alone. Haha. Pretty funny stuff. The "on and off" stuff started because her parents didn't like me. Then they grounded her a couple times to get us apart until she finally blew up on them and told them how she really felt about me and since that day they haven't said a bad thing about me. Haha. Then we broke up a couple times because we both think VERY highly of school and our relationship was affected our grades. Then we broke up a couple times in between those because of fights. (we both tend to get overly jealous LOL) And it's been a couple good months since we last went out. But she's always thought she'd like me again, and the reason I'm curious is because she usually is never so flirty with me unless she likes me. She is the kind of girl that will only do certain (which is a lot for her) stuff ONLY if she is going out with them. And I never know because she is shy and usually never admits it, even when I confront her. Haha.

ANOTHER THING OF INFO; Last weekend she was here and we were goofing around and she wanted me to play my drumset for her, and I didn't want to; too embarrased, so she grabbed my hand and started dragging me across the floor. So then I pulled her down and rolled ontop of her to hold her down and then there was this like wierd silence until I got off like a minute later. Then, thirty minutes later we were watching a movie and we were sitting SO FREAKING close, she could have been ON me literally and there wouldn't have been much of a difference. LOL And the funny thing is, we both didn't realize it till after she left. Hahaha. And then, one week later, this stuff I told you about earlier happens.

Damn dude, I don't know what to tell you. She obviously likes you and you obviously like her. I'd say go for it.

Normally I wouldn't encourage people who've dated and broken up to get back together (my personal belief is that once you break up with someone, getting back together is asking for trouble) but your situation sounds unique in that regard.

As for her parents not liking you, that's something you're going to have to work on. Try not to do anything to make them like you less, because parents can play a huge factor in any relationship.

Yeah. I'm usually good with parents. But eh....her's are hard. She's korean. And her parents expect her to end up with like a knight in shining armor....(looks at myself)....IM WAY OFF THAT ONE! LMAO! They are really tough on her sometimes and for some reason, they don't trust her either. Which, I find wierd because I know they only thing she's ever done with a guy and says she'll only do until she gets engaged is kiss. And for me, I respect that. I just don't get why they don't trust her with me. LOL I think it's funny sometimes.

No father will ever fully trust someone his daughter is dating. Because they were once someone dating someone else's daughter and they know what you wanna do.

Hahahaha so true.
Can't believe I'm almost at 1000! YAY!

Sounds to me like you have puppet strings attached to your limbs with her in control of them.

Being she's 16 she's doing the off and on thing because:

1) some women love getting a kick out of jerking our leash

2) (and the real reason) Her parents play a major influence on her doing the off and on thing. My guess is she really does like you, but her parents don't. So therefore her parents are going to have most of the say so in who she likes and doesn't. She's fighting between her feelings and pleasing her parents.

Advice 1: Drop her and move on to someone else

Advice 2: Keep a plutonic relationship with her (meaning friends and/or make-out buddies) UNTIL She's is out of the house so she will have more freedom to exercise her feelings. Then engage in a relationship.

Because I'm willing to bet as long as she's under the umbrella of her parents you will always deal with the off and on crap.

Okay. One of my friends decided to be a jerk so I'm here to tell all of ya'll we're back together.

My friend was a jerk because he called her telling her that I decided not to be her friend anymore. So this is what she did. She called me. Here is the jist of it.

*Phone rings*
Me- "Hello?"
Her- "Jeff?" *Crying*
Me- "Yeah? Whats wrong ____"
Her- "Are you really leaving me!?" *Crying*
Me- "WHAT!? NO WAY! WHO SAID THAT!?"
Her- "A friend. He said you were leaving me!!" *Crying*
Me- "___ I'll never leave you. I love you too much and I care for you way too much. You know that!"
Her- "Yeah.....Jeff, I love you. I'm sorry. I really love you. Please don't ever leave me! If you leave me, I'll cry every single day and you can't say its best for me because me losing my mind over you is not being okay!!" *Crying*
Me- "It's okay ____. I'll never leave you..."

Half an hour later after I calmed her down, we got back together. So yeah, tonight I found out how she really feels about me. AND IM SO HAPPY!

Just thought ya'll would like to know. Haha.

....*blinks*
Am I the only one who smells a set up?
Pal.......run. No really, run.

i say that you two like each other very much. the only obstacle in your way are her parents. you may be no knight in shining armor but you must show her father that you do care for his daughter and you are not in a relationship with her only for sex.

my advice to you is that you should get close to her family. get her father by himself and explain to him how your relationship is with her, show him that you respect his daughter and that she is a positive thing in your life. her father may understand where you are coming from but that is the risk you should take.

put yourself in her shoes, she likes you and she probably has to see you in secret which may be fun for her or may be a problem for her. try to understand her situation more and if you find out i think you would know what to do from there.

It's not a setup. I know this for a fact and here's my proof. Out of the two years I have known her, she has lost friends, lost contact with people, had fights with her best friends, and I can honestly say that out of the 2 years I've known her, she has NEVER cried. I even asked her friend Hannah a couple minutes ago and Hannah told me that, quote, "I haven't seen her cry since she was 13 and her dog died". And I know Hannah wouldn't lie to me because me and Hannah are almost like best friends, so yeah. Haha. She was crying because she thought she was gonna lose me. So sweet.....LOL (blushes)

She loves you,she wants you badly,she's obsess with you,she wants the tingerling badly so give it to her.

you like her, she likes you, get together stay together and live happily ever after.