Question Icebaby.

Why doesn't your boyfriend do it anyway? If he's leaving the nest, why does he let his dad control him that much? Unless his dad is paying for college, then he's in a predicament. Sorry if that's too personal or if I sound like a douche, I'm genuinely curious.

Curiostiy killed the cat, unfortunately in this case, it didn't, nor did anything sound douchey or personal. Yay!

His dad is paying for college for him. That's why.

I think there's a way for this to happen, as long as I have a good, long talk with a few people. There's questions I need answered for my next year, such as summer classes, where I want to stay for the year... things like that.

Hopefully, we can have it where we're both satisfied because he hates where he's at, he's so down in the dumps about a few things with school that he thinks changing a few things around might make things a lot better for the both of us. Hence why we both wish we can live with each other, because he's been talking about things he wants to do where we're living together while he does other school things. But, because his dad is very strict with some things I wished he wasn't, it makes stuff a little complicated at times.

And it's our sixteen month anniversary today and we cannot see each other. Very annoying. Which is one of the reasons why we both wish we can live with each other, so that we can enjoy our time together rather than just doing it over the weekends.

I'm supposed to be writing a treatment for a script i'm writing for my film class... I'm so uninspired. I usually write to music but i have no motivation with my current playlist.

Grrr

Ahh, I see. Well if he's feeling brave and rebellious, he could get a reliable job, and mark himself down as an independent. That way he can pay for his own student loans and what not when his schooling is done, and he'll have control over his own financial destiny. Some schools even offer benefits to independent students.

I don't recommended this if he's in an unsteady financial situation, but it's an alternative you can consider if you two want it bad enough.

Really don't know you or your school or your situation, but maybe try to get a single room? I'm kinda at the opposite side of the spectrum than you, I'm a single occupant in a double room. As much as i like having my own space and just having to clean up after myself and my girlfriend, I feel like i'm kinda missing out on the college experience of having a roommate in a dorm. I'm new to my school and came in the middle of the year and have been having a lot of trouble meeting like regular, cool people. Not to mention I'm a long ways away from home. So next semester I was gonna opt to change to a more crowded/social dorm (if that even exists) because the one I'm in now is wayyy to quiet and boring. Even to the point of risking a potentially annoying roommate or even shelling out the cash to join a frat, which I'm not too sure I could afford.

So what I'm basically saying is that the negative side of living by yourself or just with your boyfriend/girlfriend is that things can get pretty boring and it kinda narrows your social life down to just one person. Don't know about you but i hate feeling dependent on just one person (or like a select few). But again I don't know you or your social situation or if this is just something your looking for in your life right now, I'm just sayin.

And sorry to hear about your sloppy roommates, doesn't your school have like a questionare thingy people fill out so they'll be placed with roommates who are similar? Or are those things total BS?

I sorta wish he can do the rebellious thing. He kinda did, financially, when it came to my Christmas gift... his daddy was not pleased. Even though gifts and buying a place to stay for ten months are two different things, still. I'm sure if we just sat down with everyone and discuss a few things here and there, I'm sure there will be a really good outcome to everything. I think that's really what needs to happen.

Spaceman Wrote:
Really don't know you or your school or your situation, but maybe try to get a single room? I'm kinda at the opposite side of the spectrum than you, I'm a single occupant in a double room. As much as i like having my own space and just having to clean up after myself and my girlfriend, I feel like i'm kinda missing out on the college experience of having a roommate in a dorm. I'm new to my school and came in the middle of the year and have been having a lot of trouble meeting like regular, cool people. Not to mention I'm a long ways away from home. So next semester I was gonna opt to change to a more crowded/social dorm (if that even exists) because the one I'm in now is wayyy to quiet and boring. Even to the point of risking a potentially annoying roommate or even shelling out the cash to join a frat, which I'm not too sure I could afford.

I would LOVE to get a single room, but unfortunately my parents do not want to pay $15,000 just for me to live on my own.

Even though that living on my own or just living with my boyfriend could make me seem like I'm missing out on a lot, there are a lot of people that I do hang out on my spare time. Even though that I'm swamped with homework, still I do have time to spend with others even if I feel like I should either live on my own or live with someone that I love.

Spaceman Wrote:
And sorry to hear about your sloppy roommates, doesn't your school have like a questionare thingy people fill out so they'll be placed with roommates who are similar? Or are those things total BS?

I just recently filled out something like that a few weeks ago. I don't remember exactly how signing up for rooms are like, such as choosing the kind of people you want to room with, but it's kind of pointless to write, "Someone who can clean up after themselves," when you're rooming with two freshmen who really haven't had the opportunity to live on their own. I mean, I'm a Sophomore, I already have a year in advance on how to live on my own. I only ask that you clean up after yourself, keep the kitchen and the bathroom tidy, I could care less about your bedroom because I don't hang out in there.

I have three other roommates, two freshies one Junior. The junior is a total bitch, so I ignore her. One of the two freshies is a lesbian, but she acts like the guy lesbian. I don't have an issue rooming with a gay person, but in this case I do because she has some sort of an issue with changing the toliet paper roll. Leaving it on the toilet and expects me to change it, hair in the tub, tampon rappers on the floor... The other freshie just piles the dishes in the sink and leaves it there for two days before loading them up in the dish washer.

I vacuum, mopped the living room/kitchen here and there because it gets too messy... I don't even get a thanks. Yeah it's Chicago, it's still chilly, but there's no need to raise the heat up to 90. I can't even talk to these girls because I don't really see them anymore due to school, but it just doesn't make any sense exactly how girls are slobs and guys are the tidiest people I've met. I needed to rant like this because I don't know who to go to and I'm afraid to go to the RA and complain without having my roommates getting an impression that I'm like a soccer mom when it comes to picking up after yourselves. I'm a germaphobe when it comes to the kitchen and the bathroom.

*Like* I agree

also, some motherfucker stole my GBA... and it had Pokemon Silver in it... 'tis a sad day. (NOTE: This sentence kind of negates the effect of the use of the word motherfucker, deal with it)

Original Japanese: Kage bushin no jutsu
English Dub: Shadow clone jutsu
Philippine dub : Naruto times 2 times 2 times 2 times 2!

Not kidding

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*Tempted to make a squirtle related pun*

You know how much retardation there is? Too much.

Seeing Brand New April 27th and April 28th! Yes!

I'm very sorry for your misfortunate incident.

Usually in one of these incidents, my instincts would tell me, "Your life is in danger! Kill that bitch!" However, I know the consequences behind it, despite the plausible backup of self-defense.

I strongly feel you should press charges. There's no telling what may happen next.

I'm afraid to say that you actually made me laugh...

"You call that I knife?" Funny

I really do, I can't tell you how much I want to press charges, but I too fought back. Yeah it was in self defense because what happened was when she approached me with the knife, I shoved her away. Not too hard where she would fall down or ram into something... But I'm also getting like a red card where I reside at because I physically touched her whether or not its in self-defense. And since it was just the two of us, she could also make up some bogus lie to fight back with becuase there was the lack of witnesses. If there was another person in sight during this, I would have just gone to the police station immediately after I talked to the officer to like start the process of getting a warrant on her.

Right now, I'm just confused, panicked, frightened, hungry (Because I just ate a bit ago but before that meal, which was at 6, I didn't have anything in me at all) and just scared. I want to be more concern of my living arrangements rather than dealing with her and her shit.

Driving by.

*Ducks*

Shit CJ, we in Ballas territory! Grab a bike and pedal muh fuckuh!

Is this a dorm situation or are you guys in a lease together? Because it might not be a bad idea to explore your options in breaking the lease or getting re-assigned a roommate. You could also go see a counselor at your college since most universities provide/include mental health support with tuition.

Also...how severe are your roommates manic and depressive episodes? Is she Bipolar I or 2?

I been out drinking for last 3 nights and first two days has been with same girl.
I really like her but she doesn't like me that way, so we just friends. She been texting me for 4 days now about going out, how my hangover or how was my night (she wasn't out last night but she was going come out). When we do go out she spend alot time with me. We been talking about opposites sexes as well, I told her about girl I like she said "I can do better". I think there bit of jealous but I ain't sure. Here problem, me spending time with her isn't doing me any good for number reason. I still have feelings for her, trying pull girl has gotten harder because they think I'm with her and I think she reaching out for someone and I'm only person is willing do it. I feel like I need help her because no one else is doing it but same time, I can't be with her all the time because it ain't doing me any good. I got get away from her for while but I can't just leave her alone because she might get more emotional. I just had to write this down because their ain't many people talk to about it and ain't looking for answers from anyone because I know answer, I just need to cut down my time I spend with her. I just need to time it right. Anyway, I been getting shit answers from people e.g. fuck her and other one was just walk away.

I'm back again. As fate would have it, a co-worker sold me his ps3 for 100 bucks and I took the deal only cause I just resently found out about MK 9. It looked super impressive but I wasn't gonna put out 200+ for a ps3. But at 100, I didn't even hesitate lol.

Not sure if anyone remembers me, but if you do, just know that I am a lot more mature now than I used to be. I'm grown folks now