Espio872 Wrote:NoobSaibot5 Wrote:
lads im like, really confused. There's a straight guy I know who told me tonight he has no problems swinging both ways. Thing is, I've thought he was gorgeous since I met him, and the other gay guy I know who knows him recons he's a bit on the gay side too.
It might sound complicated but the man has 3 kids and I reckon he's kinda curious not only from the look in his eye but the way he behaves around me. But dear jesus he's a beaut and I wouldn't mind a bit of him. I'm just too afraid to flirt with him. I mean, technically he's with a girl and had kids for her, yet he tells me he finds me hot and is happy to tell me he has no objections to swinging both ways with a few drinks on him. I'm confused. Do I make the first move? How? Is it wise to? He walked me home tonight and I just wanted to pin him to a car bonnet and maul the life out of him. What do I do? He's completely irresistable, but I don't want to make a show of myself chatting him up when he knows I'm gay and I'm not guaranteed a response. Wtf do I do like?
He's taken right? I wouldn't even mess with him, not to mention his cop out, "I'm bi when I'm drunk" shenanigans, it sounds like more drama than it's worth, not to mention what about her? It's not fair to her that he wants to play these games.
My advice, find a hot gay or bi guy that isn't taken, save on drama and + that shouldn't be too difficult Ireland is the hottness.
Espio872 Wrote:NoobSaibot5 Wrote:
lads im like, really confused. There's a straight guy I know who told me tonight he has no problems swinging both ways. Thing is, I've thought he was gorgeous since I met him, and the other gay guy I know who knows him recons he's a bit on the gay side too.
It might sound complicated but the man has 3 kids and I reckon he's kinda curious not only from the look in his eye but the way he behaves around me. But dear jesus he's a beaut and I wouldn't mind a bit of him. I'm just too afraid to flirt with him. I mean, technically he's with a girl and had kids for her, yet he tells me he finds me hot and is happy to tell me he has no objections to swinging both ways with a few drinks on him. I'm confused. Do I make the first move? How? Is it wise to? He walked me home tonight and I just wanted to pin him to a car bonnet and maul the life out of him. What do I do? He's completely irresistable, but I don't want to make a show of myself chatting him up when he knows I'm gay and I'm not guaranteed a response. Wtf do I do like?
He's taken right? I wouldn't even mess with him, not to mention his cop out, "I'm bi when I'm drunk" shenanigans, it sounds like more drama than it's worth, not to mention what about her? It's not fair to her that he wants to play these games.
My advice, find a hot gay or bi guy that isn't taken, save on drama and + that shouldn't be too difficult Ireland is the hottness.
See the problem with me is I know that's the safe route, and I'll try avoid it. The gay guys with this much intrigue and chemistry are impossible to flirt with or hook up with over here, Ireland's kinda weird in how contrasting people are in the ways they hook up. I find this man in particular incredibly attractive and god knows if I could get away with hooking up with him I would, but im not sure if that's smart or not. He's obviously interested, so am I, and judging by social politics over here open gay men are actually harder to hook up with. I've liked this guy since May, this is such a clusterfuck.
Why do I always go for what I know will cause me trouble?
