flameshang Wrote:
Oh here's what happened with the guy and I.
So this girl, who i have known my whole life, I have dated her, and I love her with all my heart. She is indeed my best friend. though as of late she is being a real dick. I figured out that she was dating this guy she said she really liked.
first of all, the stories she tells me about him are awful. she sounds like the biggest scumbag in existence. so i really already don't like him. but whatever if she is going to treat me like shit for this asshole then i just wont talk to her until this phase is over with.
so she calls me at like 3 in the morning, and i am like wtf is this about. only thought in my head is that she is hurt, and needs help of some sort. so i answer and i am like hello, and no ones there and the call ends. I call back, and some deep ass voice answers like "who the fuck is this." My heart sank with intimidation because i definitely was not expecting that. Im like, "This is Richard, whats going on? who are you?" he proceeds to act like a dick so i ask "Where is Kate?" and he says "don't worry about it"
My mind at this point is gone. i heard her say "Give me back my phone!" in the back. She goes to a different school than me but this guy goes to the same one. He asked what school I went to and i told him. he said "yeah, i know who you are, expect a surprise from me soon" I know what he looks like from Facebook. so after that i got scared in the sense of like yo i don't wanna fight anyone. but i cant just let some dude attack me.
The rule for me fighting is, never throw the first punch unless i see someone doing something wrong to someone else. I got into a scared defensive mindset. only reason i was scared was because i didn't know what to expect at all. I have trained in jujitsu and i was planned on taking him down and choking him out if he laid a finger on me. I was fairly certain i could do that.
The next day at school i went to 2 classes without seeing anyone. my lunch block comes up and conveniently he has the same lunch. he comes up and says, "Hey RICH!" the thoughts going thru my head are " here we go fuck." and he says the following:
"Hey man, Im sorry. I didn't know how much you meant to her. Im not going to fight you. and if i am going to be with her, i think we should be friends. does that sound okay?"
in my head i was so close to sayin nah fukk dat yo but instead i was okay with this. I actually agree, if im going to try and remain friends with her which i will, then i should befriend this guy.
So he and I sat together at lunch. we normally set with a set group of friends but both of us took the lunch to talk about it. I asked him why he treats her so bad. he explained that, thats how he treats all the girls he goes through, but now he is going to treat her with respect because this is the first girl he can possibly have a relationship with that could actually matter.
I am going to give him a chance because i def do see the good in him.
It's obvious that he only did that because she made him. Don't be naive.
