Stopping by on my 20 year anniversary. Haven't been online much anymore. Various real life drama has been whittling my hobbies & passions away. Been researching narcissists DARVO & gaslighting bullshit. Been super stressed since Dec, and withdrawing from everything because of a bully who can't argue in good faith without escalating everything with anger & insults, accusing me of doing things I didn't, ignoring my mental & physical health issues(apparently there's absolutely NOTHING wrong with me), using my being scatterbrained against me to confuse me in convo & accuse me of ignoring shit on purpose. Apparently motherfucker knows me more in a few months than people who've known me my entire life.
Know what to look for to educate & protect yourself from these parasites: Don't let assholes destroy your mental health!
How to handle the DARVO method
5 mind games narcissists play
4 traps angry narcissists pull you into
When narcissists habitually criticize
How to respond to a narcissists irrational anger
How to put a stop to gaslighting for good
How to stop gaslighting and manipulation before it's too late
How to combat gaslighting: 10 practical tips
*Edit: Yes I'm well aware of the irony that I have various narcissistic traits, delusions, and mental issues. I've been very open with my problems over the years so people understand what people's misconceptions, honest or otherwise & bullies bullshit does to you. Researching this I've also come across the term "trauma dump", I'm sorry if it feels like I do this telling you about my misfortunes.
This is specifically about the arguing style of everything angrily escalaing with insults, and deflecting, saying you do things you didn't, then switching the topic when you correct them, using being scatterbrained against you because you remember some things but not others(assuming they aren't just making shit up knowing your memory is sketchy at times), and outright denying your documented problems.
Ka-Tra
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