Have you ever cheated on your partner, or even considered it?

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posted07/16/2004 03:54 AM (UTC)by

AussieNinja

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02/14/2003 01:20 AM (UTC)

I guess different people have different definitions of what cheating actually is.

To me, cheating is anything that is done secretly behind your partners back with another person.

Basically, being unfaithful includes doing things such as kissing, sleeping with another person, touching in a sexual manner, just saying sweet nothings.

The above can occur in a variety of situations and locations. ie: workplace, bars/clubs, hookers/brothels, even meetings from the internet, or maybe not even necessarily a meeting from the internet and just chatting (cyber sex or that kind of desperate garbage).

Has anyone been unfaithful to their current/past partner?

Or if you haven't, have you ever considered cheating whether you planned to, wanted to because you weren't all that interested in your partner or just wanted to experience someone else. Or maybe you were out with the boys/girls and saw a hot person that you wanted a crack at so you talked the talk and made a move? Whether you were successful or not is not important as the attempt was made...

Do you also think that if a person has cheated once, they will do it again?

For myself, I have never cheated on any of my partners. I did consider it for one of my ex's though. I just was not all that interested in her. But that's pretty shitty, so I broke up with her first and then went out on the prowl.

With my current girlfriend I have not, nor will I consider being unfaithful in any way. She's the best thing to ever have happened to me and I'm not willing to screw this relationship up. It's not worth it.

I also believe that if someone has cheated once, then they won't necessarily cheat again. However if a person has cheated multiple times even if it is with different partners, then they definately will cheat again in the future.

Hyuga

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•07/13/2004 11:27 PM (UTC) •

No, and I never would. I'd imagine that shit is annoying.

Sarcasm

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•07/13/2004 11:30 PM (UTC) •

No i havent

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•07/13/2004 11:31 PM (UTC) •

Answer for first question: NO!!!
Answer for second question: NEVER!!!
Answer for 3rd: It depends upon the circumstances and the reason's behind it. If they were lured into it then that means that they are weak and can be easily seduced again, doesn't mean they will be but the opportunity is there. Cheating because of being under the influence of drugs or alchohol, if they're addicted and/or are unwilling to stop I'd say its a definite there too. Insecurity is another reason and unless that person gains self confidence they will definitely cheat again. Falling in love with another person... I'm not sure on this one but I wouldn't be able to trust them. Anyway there you go.

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•07/13/2004 11:58 PM (UTC) •

my ex cheated on me, Later on we got back together.

reason: Because I was plannin to cheat on her.

couldn't find someone cheat to on her with within two weeks so I decided to tell her to fuck off.

next time she got with her next two boyfriends I seduced her and got her to cheat on both of them both times. She was dumped both times and I told her to fuck off two more times.

I hated her anyway. Always put me thru "tests", was a racist(really bad), stole non-stop, refused to work, treated my family like crap.

I think my revenge was both fun and great. Last I heard she gained a crap load of weight and her family hates her. funny enough I'm friends with her brothers, sister, and mom.

I wouldn't cheat anymore. I think around that time I was just pissed. I don't ever want to cheat again.

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•07/14/2004 12:02 AM (UTC) •

I don't have a girlfriend but if I did I wouldn't CHEAT on her for any reasons.

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•07/14/2004 12:09 AM (UTC) •

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redsoul Wrote:
my ex cheated on me, Later on we got back together.

reason: Because I was plannin to cheat on her.

couldn't find someone cheat to on her with within two weeks so I decided to tell her to fuck off.

next time she got with her next two boyfriends I seduced her and got her to cheat on both of them both times. She was dumped both times and I told her to fuck off two more times.

I hated her anyway. Always put me thru "tests", was a racist(really bad), stole non-stop, refused to work, treated my family like crap.

I think my revenge was both fun and great. Last I heard she gained a crap load of weight and her family hates her. funny enough I'm friends with her brothers, sister, and mom.

I wouldn't cheat anymore. I think around that time I was just pissed. I don't ever want to cheat again.

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•07/14/2004 02:51 AM (UTC) •

When I was with my last girlfriend, I very nearly did, with a guy. We almost did...I would have, too, but he cracked up completely about being with another guy.

I haven't been in a real relationship, much less cheated, since then.

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•07/14/2004 04:11 AM (UTC) •

I almost always cheat on my girlfriend, she is way to good at playing nintendo, if i don't cheat she will almost surely win.

In relationships....no, never ever, i would hate it if she would do it to me, and because i respect her so damn much. But i must say that women can sense that someone is in a relationship or something. When i'm single almost no one wants to talk to me, but when i'm in a relationship, i get lots of attention...

Afghanblade

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•07/14/2004 05:27 AM (UTC) •

I have never cheated and i never will.....cause i really love my girlfriend......in fact she aint my girlfriend anymore shes my fiance now.

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•07/14/2004 05:33 AM (UTC) •

Even though I've had the opportunity to do it, I've never cheated on any of my 4 girlfriends. Unfortunately, it's pretty much confirmed that all of 'em cheated on me at least once.

The first one cheated on me with a guy she eventually dumped me for. Karma screwed her, since the guy dumped her for another girl

.

The second one cheated on me with an ex of hers. She denied it, but her very best friend swore that it was true, and I honestly saw no reason for her (the best friend) to lie to me.

The third one also cheated on me with an ex, and yeah, she always denied it. Karma screwed her by ending her next relationship the very same day I began my next relationship (and yeah, I was sorta resposible for that

). Speaking of this next relationship...

My fourth ex cheated on me with this guy who was her "best friend." I put those 2 words in "" since all he wanted was to get in her pants. I've discussed this in countless threads before, but for those who care/don't know the story, the reason I DO believe she cheated on me is 'cause I was told this by 3 different sources. None of these sources knows the other, so it's not like they heard the same gossip from the same person. Hoever, the reason I DON'T belive she cheated on me is 'cause all of these sources were girls who, at the time they told me this, felt something for me so they did have a reason to lie.

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•07/14/2004 05:43 AM (UTC) •

nah, i dont have the heart to cheat.

but i have been cheated on.

stacey cheated on me with one of her friends, because she heard from her friend that i was fucking the local convent that for her to go with him... damn she was stupid.

ashly cheated on me with... her gym instructer... strange... who to thought brother and sister would like each other like that (0_o)

alison was the only ex-girlfriend of mine that did not cheat on me... or so it may seem to me, but she ended it because it was too much of a hassle, whatever.

my girlfriend now, jessica, i will never cheat on, and as i hope she will never cheat on me.

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•07/14/2004 05:05 PM (UTC) •

oh Hell yeah! I be mackin it to MaD ho3'z cuz I'm a playa-playaaa know what I'm sayin dawgs??

nah jk, lol

I'm faithful to my gf I loveee her and wont cheat on her. It's just wrong.

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•07/14/2004 05:08 PM (UTC) •

congratulations man, thats sounds great, good luck

Hyukan

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•07/14/2004 05:18 PM (UTC) •

I'd never cheat on my girlfriend, I love her so much I'd be so bored and dull without her. Grr I'm sounding like Doc Ock in Spider-Man 2

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•07/14/2004 11:23 PM (UTC) •

No, cheating is just plain hurtfull and not in any way warrented. If you are tired of your bf/gf call it off then go out with someone else, don't be a pussy and go behind your significant others back, just get your shit together and put your cards on the table. And i would never cheat on my g/f i love her too much and i could never be that much of a cold asshole. As for the third question, "once a cheater always a cheater" may not be a completely true saying, if as stupid and uncalled for as it may have been, per say was a self test as often times it is, to see how it would be with another man/woman. And almost everyone deserves a second chance.

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•07/15/2004 07:00 AM (UTC) •

Never, I will never, even if it is with an extremely beautiful girl. I know how it feels to be cheated on, because all of my gf's have cheated on me, even though I treated them like princesses, they all fuckin stabbed me in the back, and I had an oppurtunity once, but I was raised to always be faithful. And once a cheater always a cheater.

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•07/15/2004 07:45 AM (UTC) •

I did, and regretted it.

I'm a believer in the wiccan rule that whatever you give comes back to you threefold (or was it sevenfold? Regardless...). Since that time, three girlfriends have cheated on me.

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•07/15/2004 01:51 PM (UTC) •

I nail everything i can. Do I cheat, HELL YEAH, I like it. Nothing makes me feel more complete than being with another chick while thinking what face my GF would make if she found out.

I did it countless amount of time. The best thing about it is that she never found out

I am that great at it it seems.

As a matter of fact... tonight will be another one of her lonely nights while "I work late"

I am amazed to see so many faithfull people here.

Now, for those who know me... hope you had fun reading as I wanted to be the first to "not be the good guy for once" LoL

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•07/15/2004 02:19 PM (UTC) •

I cheated on my current girlfriend, but it was the result of alcohol (I can't hold my liquor well). I didn't do much though, just grabbed the girl's ass, and wrapped my arm around her. Either way, I regretted it a lot and told my girlfreind about it the next day. She wasn't as furious as I thought she would be (thankfully), but she forgave me.

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•07/15/2004 04:48 PM (UTC) •

Well, since I've never had a gf, I think the answer should be pretty obvious...

If I did, though, I definitely wouldn't cheat on her. I wouldn't do something stupid like that to fuck it up.

AussieNinja Wrote:
To me, cheating is anything that is done secretly behind your partners back with another person.

I think "anything that is done secretly" in some cases is too broad to be considered cheating. For example, there was one girl I was friends with (and, yes, at one point I liked her) who had a boyfriend that threatened me because he saw me trying to talk to her (the girl and I had a class together, and she ignored me because she knew her bf was outside the classroom, probably watching her). Anyway, the week before, the girl and I were talking to each other after class, then she saw her bf, and ran to him, ignoring me. I have a feeling she didn't want him knowing she was talking to another guy.

So basically, I think that if the guy is so much of a paranoid fuck that the girl has to go behind his back just to talk to another guy as a friend, I don't think it's fair to call that cheating.

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•07/15/2004 08:45 PM (UTC) •

I've only had one Boyfriend and he cheated on me. I'm single again......oh well.

I'm still VERY VERY BITTER!!!! I want PAYBACK!!!

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•07/16/2004 12:19 AM (UTC) •

I think all cheaters should be sent to CAMPS!

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•07/16/2004 03:21 AM (UTC) •

Have you ever cheated on your partner, or even considered it?

Considered it, yes. Done it, no. Girls have pushed me to the point where if somebody better popped up I would've got with them, but not before ending it with who I was with atleast.

Has anyone been unfaithful to their current/past partner?

Like I said above...

Do you also think that if a person has cheated once, they will do it again?

From my experience with girls/guys cheating, once a cheater, always a cheater. Granted, some people outgrow it or whatever, but alot don't.

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•07/16/2004 03:31 AM (UTC) •

done it yes considered it? on an hourly basis,and who ever says any different is obviously not human, and I respect you, but there is these chicks they're so ncie to you they get all fresh and everything and then... well time for another girls friend or the tired, "I can change I am flesh and bone I have learned from my mistakes and have learned to not jeopardize what I have found within you..." Use it it is gold! truthfully it may be because I am an emotionally insecure individual and I don't really wanna love anyone because I have a fear of being hurt like I said... human...

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