I don't live with my mom or dad anymore but I love them both and they never gave me any trouble when I WAS living with them. If I asked to go somewhere, they would say "Yes" if they had the time, If they didn't they would usually say "When I have time I will". I asked for money and if they had it they would say, "Here you go son" and if they didn't they would say "Maybe payday". I love both my parents.

TomTaz Wrote: Well my mom's gone...but we always got along very well...we understood each other very well so no problems with her.... My dad is a different story....First I have absolutely NO idea where the bastard is...and at this point could really care less. I can't say that I "hate" him cause I feel that to actually hate someone, you would have to know them first...I never got that chance he was never around..ever...so *shurgs* I don't know.

That was my story, Tazzer, until I was 12. That's when I first met my dad. I still don't see him though, and I'm not bothered. I remember he said to me once that it seems that I really don't want to see him. Given that he wasn't there most of my life, I am really not bothered. I got along fine without him.

Anyway, I hate my mother. I know it's bad that I can say that about her, but I'm fed up of her. She along with my brothers make my life hell! You know my situation better than most, Tazzer.

Nikodemus Wrote: I don't get along at all with my father..all we do is fight and argue about everything. He seems to get out all his frustations on me like I'm some sorta outlet. I have little respect for him as a father or even as a person. I'm moving out (finally) sometime in july or august to move in with my girlfriend. I'm glad I wont have to spend any time with him anymore. I'll be happy if I never see him again. Seems harsh but the guy sucks ass. That's why I'm never going to have kids. I never had a good father so how would I know what a good father is spose to be like?

Do the total opposite of what he did.

tgrant Wrote: Anyway, I hate my mother. I know it's bad that I can say that about her, but I'm fed up of her. She along with my brothers make my life hell! You know my situation better than most, Tazzer.

Yes I do....and I'm sorry that you have to put up with that man. That's all I'll say, as I know this is quite personal to you.

Savior Wrote: TomTaz Wrote: Well my mom's gone...but we always got along very well...we understood each other very well so no problems with her.... My dad is a different story....First I have absolutely NO idea where the bastard is...and at this point could really care less. I can't say that I "hate" him cause I feel that to actually hate someone, you would have to know them first...I never got that chance he was never around..ever...so *shurgs* I don't know. Thats really sad Taz You made me think about all the things we take for granted.....especially our parents

*Nods* I learned a very long time ago, the hard way, that you should never take any friends or family members for granted...cause tomorrow or even 15 minutes from now...they could be gone. Scary to think about I know...but, sadly, very true.

I don't hate my dad but he does suck ass. He is constantly giving me shit about my homosexuality, he's a STRICT Christian (I'm not bashing Christians, I am one, but he is like, STRICT) And he's trying to gain full custody of me and just take me away from my mom. My mom is awesome, we drink together, and she's so laid-back and calm. We have absolutely no grudges. But my dad just instigates and finds reasons to scold me and yell at me. Jesus Christ.

I knew someone was gonna say that!!

Alpha_Q_Up Wrote: Nikodemus Wrote: I don't get along at all with my father..all we do is fight and argue about everything. He seems to get out all his frustations on me like I'm some sorta outlet. I have little respect for him as a father or even as a person. I'm moving out (finally) sometime in july or august to move in with my girlfriend. I'm glad I wont have to spend any time with him anymore. I'll be happy if I never see him again. Seems harsh but the guy sucks ass. That's why I'm never going to have kids. I never had a good father so how would I know what a good father is spose to be like? Do the total opposite of what he did.

I guess this thread did turn out the way I wanted it to be. People screaming their anger towards the beings that brought them to the world.

I can clearly see there are many with more logical and important reasons to hate their parents then the ones I listed, and it makes me think I should be thankful instead of bitching about my dad’s attitude.

I love them both unconditionally. My father usually tells me the truth about things*about how I'm going to have to start my life*, and gives me advice for the future truthfully, *the bad stuff that'll worry you*(but it's the truth). My mother gives me the support and comfort I need to bear with it(dad does too).

queve Wrote: I guess this thread did turn out the way I wanted it to be. People screaming their anger towards the beings that brought them to the world. I can clearly see there are many with more logical and important reasons to hate their parents then the ones I listed, and it makes me think I should be thankful instead of bitching about my dad’s attitude.

BINGO!

...get outta here... I love my parents, if you've a problem with yours try to solve it cause you owe everything to them (unless of course you're daily raped and sexually abused by them) and don't give me the "I didn't asked to be born" shit...

*X*BloodyEyes Wrote: ...get outta here... I love my parents, if you've a problem with yours try to solve it cause you owe everything to them (unless of course you're daily raped and sexually abused by them) and don't give me the "I didn't asked to be born" shit...

That is true. But there are more reasons not to love them besides those.

Sexual abuse is not the only one there, we also have verbal abuse, and of course, fisical abuse. Both as terrible as the first.

NeedlesKane Wrote: I love them both unconditionally. My father usually tells me the truth about things*about how I'm going to have to start my life*, and gives me advice for the future truthfully, *the bad stuff that'll worry you*(but it's the truth). My mother gives me the support and comfort I need to bear with it(dad does too).

We are proud of you son, and we both love you very much. Now clean your room and get me a beer.

Hmmmmmmmmm let me think. Right about now I’d probably chose my mom. I’ve grown a lot over the years and I think I could take her. My dad’s still got me on height and arm length, so I’m going to play it safe and pick my mom. Straight up. Put her and me in the ring and I’d wipe the floor with her caring, loving ASS.

TomTaz Wrote: Well my mom's gone...but we always got along very well...we understood each other very well so no problems with her.... My dad is a different story....First I have absolutely NO idea where the bastard is...and at this point could really care less. I can't say that I "hate" him cause I feel that to actually hate someone, you would have to know them first...I never got that chance he was never around..ever...so *shurgs* I don't know.

Yea I'm kinda the same way not as much but he gets on my nerves sometimes... I wouldnt "hate" or "despise" cuz those are deep words. But he does get on my nerves sometimes.

But you should respect both of them... Your dad did all the work of sleepin with her and gettin hooked up, your mom had to squeeze you through the