What attracts you to a person?
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posted07/15/2012 03:26 AM (UTC)by
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Icebaby
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05/27/2008 09:03 PM (UTC)
While looking at my painted fingernails not too long ago, I remember being told by my boyfriend that he doesn't understand how girls can get so over-emotional about having their fingernails painted. Tells me that's not what he's attracted to on me. It's mostly how flattened my stomach is, my long legs, my large brown eyes, and the fact that I have his sense of humor is what got him attracted to me.

I'm sure we've all had relationships on this site, yes it's another relationship thread, but just curious... what attracts you to that person? Is it their sense of humor? Their hair? Their body tone? Anything?

What attracts you to a person you really like?
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mkwhopper
07/07/2012 05:08 PM (UTC)
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Body, Face, Personality, at least a Sense of Humor
I'll say more later
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Murcielago
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Get that ass BANNED

07/07/2012 05:10 PM (UTC)
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Vagina. (I'll give a more serious answer later)
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UNdiscovered
07/07/2012 05:34 PM (UTC)
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camel toe

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PorkandBeans
07/07/2012 05:34 PM (UTC)
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Definitely the personality. I've come across a few people who are just as good looking as they want to be but they lacked personality. It was so bad that I'd have a million times more fun hanging out with a ham sandwich.

Of course good looks is a bonus, but if you have zero personality and little to no sense of humor...it doesn't matter how good you look to me, I'd want nothing to do with it, not even a friendship.
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KungLaodoesntsuck
07/07/2012 05:41 PM (UTC)
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My ex girlfriend had all the qualities I could've ever asked for.

Great smile
Gorgeous hair
She could always make me laugh
She had a nice body (not too skinny, not too big, just right)
Her personality was great
Killer legs

That's what attracts me to a girl.
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ErmackDaddy
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Thanks redman for the sig!

07/07/2012 05:55 PM (UTC)
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Its all about the voice and eyes for me. If a guy has the voice of a 14 year old girl with a lisp i aint interested.
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Icebaby
07/07/2012 05:58 PM (UTC)
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It's cool to see how many of you guys have almost the same kind of traits for a person for you to like.
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SubScorpTile
07/07/2012 06:19 PM (UTC)
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Legs.
Wit.
Nice butt.
Not a fan of plastic surgery at all.
Her cooking and cleaning abilities too.

The rest I can work with.
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maximus12
07/07/2012 06:23 PM (UTC)
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Hair
Eyes
Not extremely skinny
Good sense of humor

There's more but eh.
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Murcielago
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Get that ass BANNED

07/07/2012 06:27 PM (UTC)
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Alright.

Long straight black hair.
Can handle my weirdness.
Laughs about everything like I do.
A nice face.
Body types aren't that important, just be lean or whatever. Fit I guess.
Has some smarts.
Can be shy at times.
Likes the same music I do.

Something around all this. I've yet to find someone of this caliber. Or at least 4 of these.
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FlamingTP
07/07/2012 07:19 PM (UTC)
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Women: (in order of importance)
Honesty
Communication and critical thinking skills
Atheism
Personality
Humor
Common interests/toleration of my interests if not
Hair/face/legs/boobies
Sexual openness including many taboos.

Men:
clean/skinny/shaved
the girlier the better.
Shave dat shit.
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xB$INx
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07/07/2012 07:35 PM (UTC)
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Pretty much realistic and down to earth girl. Also, she has to be nice to people. Bitches are horrible. Other than that, i can pretty much deal with whatever. Looks matter to a certain degree for me, cause lets all be honest, there has to be some level of physical attraction, but not past their personality. Like someone said before, they can be the hottest chick in the world but be a total bitch. But for purposes sake. Hair does not really matter, I like nice tits though, flat stomachs, nice legs, and some degree of tanness (just not oompa loompa status).Their smile and way they look at you and other people are a big one for me.
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Toxik
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07/07/2012 08:33 PM (UTC)
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- Body
- Voice
- Eyes
- Niceness
- Personality

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Mojo6
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07/07/2012 09:26 PM (UTC)
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Do you mean what do I physically find attractive in a woman or what qualities do I look for in a girlfriend?
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Icebaby
07/07/2012 09:28 PM (UTC)
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Mojo6 Wrote:
Do you mean what do I physically find attractive in a woman or what qualities do I look for in a girlfriend?


Both actually, just anything that makes you like someone.
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annilation
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I feel so alone, gonna end up a Big ole pile of them bones.

07/07/2012 11:08 PM (UTC)
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Lol vagina.

Besides that.

Personality, no ghetto shit, you can't be any slut off the street.

I hate being mushy all I want to know is if your down. Ya Dig? Haha.

Most importantly you gotta be smart, hell nothing turns me on more than a girl who is fine and a smart-ass.

What turns me off is being called babe 30 times in a hour.

Oh, and I hate if a female has had sex with multiple men it disgusts me.

Lastly, I cant stress this enough smarts is all I want.


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07/08/2012 12:24 AM (UTC)
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Gonna have to divide it up here:

MEN
- masculinity
- handsome face
- large chest
- goatee
- benevolent nature
- bashfulness
- modesty

WOMEN
- femininity
- beautiful eyes
- thickness
- hips
- confidence
- slightly sassy
- knows the value she has as a woman

BOTH
- Latin accent
- thighs
- open-mindedness
- selflessness
- a strong sense of humor
- knows who Quan Chi and Voldo are

Of all things, I feel it is a must that the person is willing to acknowledge their flaws. I hate it when people judge others but never turn a mirror on themselves. A person acknowledging their flaws will attract me faster than anything, because it shows humility, a rare quality in humans.
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07/08/2012 12:38 AM (UTC)
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I know you don't like me too much, but I really like this thread...
Face, body and personality attracts me to girls.
But I've recently got my heart kicked in its ass, so now I don't care and I dont have "girlfriends", as you would probably call them, I have "friends with benefits".
My life is too complicated...
The one girl that I could've spent eternity with is gone and I literally feel as if there is a whole in my chest right where my heart is...
None of these girls I have sex with gives me what this one girl gave me: happiness...
Even in a crowd of Japanese girls, I feel so alone and incomplete without this one girl...

I'm going a bit too deep, so I'll end this with a bit of advice: if you found that special one you can't live without, don't let them go, because you never truly know what you have until its gone...
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07/08/2012 12:48 AM (UTC)
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I used to say that I don't really have a type, but if I said that now I'd be a liar. I do have some requirements (though it's a very loose definition of "requirements" as there are ways to make up for shortcomings imo)

PHYSICAL
1- Must not be skin and bones. Must also not be overweight to the point where I think she isn't taking care of herself. I like women with a little thickness in the right areas, if you know what I mean.
2- I prefer blue or green eyes, but I'm not too picky on that.
3- Long legs are a plus.
4- Soft hands are a huge plus.
5- As tall as I am, I have to say that I'm not into tall women.

PERSONALITY
1- Must not be controlling. I don't mind putting a significant other first, but when it's always expected of me 100% of the time, it's a problem.
2- Must not be the possessive or jealous type. Don't go through my phone, don't call me a cheater if I talk to other girls, and don't alienate my friends.
3- Something about women who give the impression that they have everything figured out really turns me off. I think a little bit of vulnerability can be really attractive, because it means she's smart enough to know she's only human.
4- Speaking of intelligence, it's a must. I can't date a girl who is dumb as a post.
5- Someone who is open to trying new things, and I don't just mean in bed.

That's basically what works for me.
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07/08/2012 03:34 AM (UTC)
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A few reasons why I'm so attracted to my mate:

A little chubby, not too toned. I don't like overly muscled guys, it just seems way too obvious that they are working hard at it. I like guys comfortable in their own skin. People get pimples, deal with it.

Utterly hilarious. We have the same sense of humor and we're always laughing. I love making him laugh and I love when he makes me laugh.

Love of animals. My guy is in school to be a veterinarian and he used to work at a zoo part time and is applying to wildlife foundations for experience over the next few years. We have a puppy and she's our world (until the baby comes lol).

His eyes. My boyfriend has beautiful eyes and a lot of times when he's talking to me I just get lost in them and I lose focus on what he's saying lol.

Side note; teeth. Teeth are really important to me. I keep extreme care of my own and I need a guy with nice teeth. If you have crazy yellow teeth, I get really grossed out. Bleh.

Also, cute topic.
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Murcielago
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07/08/2012 04:29 AM (UTC)
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I should post the personality.

Nice to my friends. I'd hate to have or like a girl who didn't like my friends. I'd want her to be one of the group. Everyone knows her and everyone accepts her because she's a badass like the rest of us.

I wouldn't mind having a girlfriend like this

:D
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mkwhopper
07/08/2012 04:42 AM (UTC)
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-Not a total twit(not too brainy to the point of "know it all mentality")
-Curvy, slender not "toothpick skinny" BUT not fat either
-Nice ass
-NOT A BITCH(counts in the personality category)
-Honest
-Not control freakish(and going through my shit without permission)
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redman
07/08/2012 06:19 AM (UTC)
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Nice personality, not controlling.

Has common interests.

Nice legs.

Not a huge slut
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Coltess
07/08/2012 07:54 AM (UTC)
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