Thamuz Wrote: Well, through my years of being fat, it seems I never get any girls because of it. I mean lots of girls like me I just think it's my weight keeping us from going out and stuff.

Uh...That isn't quite a question.
But the answer seems pretty obvious.

Go to subway.

Dude, I have been overweight my entire life, until I decided to make a change. In the past 4 months I've lost 50 lbs, and I'm getting a hell of a lot thinner. All I did was stop drinking pop, and I drink nothing but water, at least a gallon a day. I've never had luck with girls too, they will always tell me that I am the sweetest guy they've ever met, but they will never go out with me. You gotta face it, some girls are shallow, but don't try to let it bother you too much and develop a complex. Just wait, be yourself, and a girl will eventually fall head-over-heels in love with you.

Actually I know a few girls that do like guys with a little bit of meat on em. It's this "Teddy Bear" theory that I'm still working on. The reason being is due in part to cuddling. When I asked why to one in particular she said "It's better to hug someone whose big than someone whose ripped because a big guy is soft like a teddy bear while a ripped dude is uncomfortable." Now these guys they are refering to arn't necessarily fat, but they are big.

Yea lol the teddy bear lol. Well, it hasn't really bothered me much cause I guess I can hit on whoever I want (without a chance lol) plus I can party. I lost a lot weight when I was sick once and all I ate was apples, but I gained it all back and then some, but w/e.

linkinparkfreak Wrote: Dude, I have been overweight my entire life, until I decided to make a change. In the past 4 months I've lost 50 lbs, and I'm getting a hell of a lot thinner. All I did was stop drinking pop, and I drink nothing but water, at least a gallon a day. I've never had luck with girls too, they will always tell me that I am the sweetest guy they've ever met, but they will never go out with me. You gotta face it, some girls are shallow, but don't try to let it bother you too much and develop a complex. Just wait, be yourself, and a girl will eventually fall head-over-heels in love with you.

The water thing really does work actually.
I lost 10 kg's in a month or 2, and my mother thought i was turning manorexic.
I also stopped drinking soda while i did this.

If you can't switch to water, switch to diet pop and let the taste just sit in. It got to the point where I can't even tell the difference anymore.
I should add I'm 6'3 almost 6'4
I used to be much bigger. About 3 to 4 years ago I was about 300 pounds and the worst shape I've ever been. And that "teddy bear" theory is a good theory. What women I did land liked hugging me and being around me in general. Of course I lost weight for myself to end this constant fatigue and discomfort. I lost about 100 pounds (I'm 203 now) but the way I did it was kinda bad. I did extreme workouts and took alot of diet pills and changed my eating habits to an unhealthy manner. MY workouts lasted about eight hours, about 6 to 8 stackers a day, and limited food. I was always tired for awhile. I hate to admit but I'm in great shape now and as shallow as this sounds...I really don't have any problems getting women now.

But the real point is, just be yourself around women. Don't be down on yourself and be smooth to the ladies. That's how I got women when I was bigger.

lol @ some of the answers here.

I think I'm the only female here... as usual.

Well, the most obvious thing is to diet and work out. Lots of girls don't like guys who are skinny as rails, nor do they like guys who are like 800 pounds. I probably fall into that category.

My current boyfriend (hears the boo's from all over MKO) is over 6 feet tall and is insanely skinny. It hurts when he hugs me because he's so damn bony!

Medium-size guys are ideal to most women. I prefer 150-200 pound guys. Since I don't know your current weight status, all I can suggest is being open with girls and you'll find that one who appreciates you for who you are, and not what your body looks like.

I'm pretty damn fat. I have developed hypoglecemia do to this. But, I am trying to lose weight, i have become a pesco-vegitarian, maybe that will help. I got an appointment to see a nutrionist in october.

It probably has a lot to do with my virginness high school girls are fucking shallow and care about nothing but looks and posturing anyway. So yeah.

Look at the bright side man......at least the girls you will get will have a little somethin to hold on to

Trust me man.....everyone will find a mate....including you

You just gotta be patient

TheTinMan2005 Wrote: high school girls are fucking shallow and care about nothing but looks and posturing anyway. So yeah.

Ahem...


Honey, did you read my post?

I'm 5'8" and 255 lbs. And I've been dating one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen for almost four years. A weight issue isn't nearly as unattractive to a potential girlfriend as unconfidence. Whoever you are, whatever you look like, believe in yourself and others will believe in you.

GI JOOOOOOOOOOOE!

Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers.

psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers.

dude are you gay or sumthin? why is every body sayin gurls are shallow? i mean look at the guys, alls they want is a peice of ass. you think guys will give a fat gurl or ugly gurl a second look? i doubt it, im just sayin guys can be just as bad...im 17 and female, sure i like sexy hot ripped guys, but thats not all im lookin for, i mean if i get to know a not so hot guy, and hes a great person maybe sumthin will happen...

but to ur kinda question Thamuz i just think lose weight for your self and not the gurls, sooner or later the right one will come to you, and she wont care wat you look like.

psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers.

I beg your fucking pardon!

Not only did that not make much sense, but it's also a sexist comment, which could get you banned.

chan_ming Wrote: I beg your fucking pardon! Not only did that not make much sense, but it's also a sexist comment, which could get you banned.

as i said before............GAY

I dissagree with you on that. I'm not looking for just a piece of ass, and if a girl is over weight doesn't make that much of a differance to me.

I try to look at her face and try to capture feelings at that moment. Sure it's nice to have the perfect body, but mine isn't perfect either.

Girls are very strange to me an I never seem to understand them, although I try very hard. They all seem to like to flirt with me and then dump me when it's time to go home. In that time i'm just beeing nice, my heart is not a playground, although girls seem to think so, just because i'm a guy and is only looking for a piece of ass.

Not every guy is an asshole, but it's really hard to convince a girl of that

†deadlysilence† Wrote: psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers. dude are you gay or sumthin? why is every body sayin gurls are shallow? i mean look at the guys, alls they want is a peice of ass. you think guys will give a fat gurl or ugly gurl a second look? i doubt it, im just sayin guys can be just as bad...im 17 and female, sure i like sexy hot ripped guys, but thats not all im lookin for, i mean if i get to know a not so hot guy, and hes a great person maybe sumthin will happen... but to ur kinda question Thamuz i just think lose weight for your self and not the gurls, sooner or later the right one will come to you, and she wont care wat you look like.

†deadlysilence† Wrote: you think guys will give a fat gurl or ugly gurl a second look?

I like (slightly) chubby girls. The ideal of "beauty" in women as portrayed by the mainstream media is too thin for my taste.

chan_ming Wrote: psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers. I beg your fucking pardon! Not only did that not make much sense, but it's also a sexist comment, which could get you banned.

Don't be so quick to judge. I've been lied to by most of the girls I've really liked, and that made me bitter for a while.

Granted, though, the "stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers" was uncalled-for.

xcarnagex Wrote: †deadlysilence† Wrote: you think guys will give a fat gurl or ugly gurl a second look? I like (slightly) chubby girls. The ideal of "beauty" in women as portrayed by the mainstream media is too thin for my taste. chan_ming Wrote: psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers. I beg your fucking pardon! Not only did that not make much sense, but it's also a sexist comment, which could get you banned. Don't be so quick to judge. I've been lied to by most of the girls I've really liked, and that made me bitter for a while. Granted, though, the "stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers" was uncalled-for.

Read that again. Who's the one judging? What he said was directed towards women in particular.

psyclobex Wrote: Woman are conviving TRAMPS there always saying im looking for somebody funny somebody with a great personalty BULLSHIT WHORE there as shallow as guys they just pretend to be all innocent.But on the bright side there stupid and weak and cry more then a baby with shit in its diapers.

Here comes the skulls.
Anywho, yes, women can play around with a guys feelings, but guys can be just as bad. It goes both ways. I've seen just as many good girls hurt by asshole guys as genuine guys getting their feelings hurt by a flirting girl.

chan_ming Wrote: Read that again. Who's the one judging? What he said was directed towards women in particular.

I didn't say what he said was right. This is just speculation, but I have a feeling psyclobex has probably been lied to and/or hurt by, women. I'm not saying that justifies sexism, but I think it makes it more understandable. Think about it: if a white person is mugged by a black guy, isn't it understandable if the white person develops a fear and mistrust of black people? Again, it's not right, but it's an easy trap to fall into.

Thanks chan_ming your the only one that understood what i meant it was directed to nobody on this board.

†deadlysilence†dude wrote: are you gay or sumthin? why is every body sayin gurls are shallow? i mean look at the guys, alls they want is a peice of ass. you think guys will give a fat gurl or ugly gurl a second look? i doubt it, im just sayin guys can be just as bad...im 17 and female, sure i like sexy hot ripped guys, but thats not all im lookin for, i mean if i get to know a not so hot guy, and hes a great person maybe sumthin will happen...


Ok im gay just because i told it like it is.Geez dont take it personal i wasnt talking to you directly god.Im just sick of liars at least some woman should have the curtesy to tell you the truth instead of saying its on the inside that counts please.The point im making i just wish more people where honest.Its a shallow world out there both m and f its kinda of sad but where all guilty on of it rejection is which leads a persons soul into insanity.

In case people have not noticed, I'm a woman, and I consider that to be an offensive sexist comment.

If someone says "omg wom3n are so weak and stupid and they're wh0rez and sh1t!", is it not natural for me to take offense? The comment was directed to women as a whole. I understand if his words were provoked because he got hurt by a girl recently, however, that doesn't justify what he said.

I just don't want to come onto MKO and read something like what he said again.

It all depends on the person i guess. Not all woman are bad as others.That can be said about for almost everyone theres always the shallow snob people and then theres the down to earth people. I never meant to offend anyone i just get carried away sometimes.