They don't need love, they need workout.

I happen to like women with enough discipline and self-control to stay in good shape and treat their bodies right.

Then again, I'm quite the athletic, spry, toned guy myself.

Now, if you're talking height? Sure, big girls need love there. Despite being 5'8", I gladly dated my roommate's gorgeous 6'4" sister. Those legs were just... wow.

Someone called Skarlet "fat" in the news thread. That was disheartening. If a girl with abs can't make the grade, than... shit.

Though being overweight isn't a lost cause. I've seen overweight women date not-overweight men, and vice versa. In a way, it's almost a double-edge sword, because you're not going to attract a lot of the douche bags who tend to gravitate to girls who are in supermodel shape. There will be that occasional fiend who only dates girls with low self-esteem so he can manipulate them, but I'd like to think that sort of parasite is rare.

Though losing weight is not as difficult as it's cracked up to be. I've been thin most of my life, but in my last year of college, I was gaining A LOT of beer weight. Once I decided to join the Navy, I lost most of it in a few months. That said, everyone's metabolism is different.

I would simply prefer a woman who isn't fatter than me.

As an overweight person myself I think everyone deserves a chance. I've been maintaining a good diet and taken up Basketball again. I've been healthy and steadily loosing weight. I have a wonderful girlfriend who is as fit and beautiful as they come. So I don't have to worry about attracting a mate. But I think as long as any girl isn't absurdly fat than give em a chance.

I just can't imagine that people would be marriage material if they can't even take care of their self.

Slightly to moderately overweight doesn't bother me. The ones that are extremely obese are the ones that I just feel sorry for. Puts too much strain on health and self-esteem.


A few years ago, I remember gaining 30 pounds of pure fat, and I remember being not too happy. At the time I was going through a rough time in my life and my mental state led me into that position. I eventually hit the gym and lost it all.


People that discriminate against overweight people are just morons. It's just weight. There are many intersecting factors that cause people to gain weight. It's not always they're fault.

I'm sorry, but I have to have a quick chuckle...I'm watching a Simpsons episode in which Springfield becomes the fattest city in the U.S. and everyone is priding themselves over it for some reason.
Anyway, I'm usually physically attracted to women around my own body shape (medium height and relatively slim), but of course EVERYONE needs love. And I have seen many couples in which one was overweight and the other was quite slim.
I was also very surprised to hear some call that background character in Mileena's video fat. No wonder some of my lady friends think they're fat when in reality they're even skinnier than me...

Curiosity (and this is aimed towards everyone, really), would you date a smoker?

Also, King Jolly brings up a good point: how fat is fat? 15 pounds overweight is not really what I'd consider fat. Actually, I'd call that the natural consequence of a stressful job.

It would depend on how much she smoked. I grew up in a pretty smoke-free environment, so odds are no (with some possible exceptions of course).

I wouldn't date a smoker or an alcoholic.

Weed? Yes. Cigarettes? No. Cigarette smoke seems to have a noticeable and harsh effect on me when I'm around it.

More cushion for the pushin'.

Yeah, I'd date a smoker. In fact I have. She was gorgeous and had a banging body. I could never marry someone addicted to cigarettes, though. She'd have to take better care of herself before I could see us together long term.

What the fuck is this thread

ahahahhahahhahahahahahahhahaha

God damn, you have no clue how hard I'm laughing IRL

smh @ this thread.

The only love them fat girls need is tough love, tell them to their face that they need to trim their fast arses down.

the fuck dude...

Of course big girls need love too. But they got to pay.


Giggity.

I personally wouldn't date an overweight person. I would date an average person, whatever that is to society. My reason is because, being overweight is not healthy. Just like being too skiny almost anorexic isn't healthy either. There has to be a balance.

I look at this thread and first thing to come into my mind was ac/dc - whole lotta rosie

Pretty fucked up.