Ok...suppose you knew someone that liked you...adored you pretty much. You knew this for about a month. So you chat with this person all the time..online..phone for hours and such. One time you pulled a prank on that person just for the hell of it, and the other person was upset about it. The person who pulled the prank(the adored one who knows she/he is adored) says that they love you..you're a good friend and such. The person who is the adorer and was pranked says "why do you love me" and she/he says "why do I love you? Ur sexy, funny and you make me feel better when im down". So of course, the adorer(being myself) felt good to hear that and preceded to ask "how am I sexy" and she said "ur your eyes,your funniness, plus you have a nice ass" etc. So Im feeling on top of the world I guess..hearing all this and such.

So a few weeks later the girl is well aware that you LOVE HER. Absolute love. So you sit near her in a class, and because of constant chatter and such you are seperated. A few minutes later the girl sends you a note saying "hey chris, i'll miss you a lot..." and you reply saying " Hey, i'll miss ya too baybee" and such.

Even later on in the month your on the phone and for the hell of it you discuss who's hot in each class. We first discuss females(she's not gay but whatever) then she moves onto guys. I feel uncomfortable for one I don't check out guys and two what if she doesn't say me? So she went from class to class until she mentions french..which is the class we are both in. To my delight she says "roberto, you and uhh..that's about it"...again im estatic.

So she and my friend chatted online, and he told her about how much I like her and talk about her and such. She replies "I feel great..almost like a goddess, but at the same time I feel bad" of course my friend asks why, and she says "because I don't like him like that..I love him like a brother".

Now tell me...and be honest. Do I have a right to be upset? Calling me sexy, writing me notes,etc. Perhaps I wouldn't be so upset if she didn't know I liked her and was joking abou all of that, but she knew I did. I know she knew because she told me she had known for about a month and a half, and well..I just know she did. So yeah..should I be mad. How would you feel if you were in either position. What does this tell you about her character? Does she seem like the flirtish type? I'm blinded by love I suppose..since I really can't tell myself.

Perhaps Im exagerrating, but when you say shit like that and you know the person loves you what are you going to say when that person asks you out? "Sorry Chris, I don't like you like that...I like you as a brother"...WHAT? So I guess you were lying when called me sexy, or you were just being a fucking flirt when you said you'd miss me,etc. Perhaps you were just saying im hot just to say it..I just don't fucking get it.

Lastly, should I confront her about this? We still talk all the time, and i've known since last saturday since my boy told me then. Or maybe I should just forget about it.

I always have appreciated your advice. I even remember that time I was so depressed and you guys all helped me out a huge amount, well I would appreciate your help again.

-Versatile