I feel sorry for that girl, because my Biology professor read us an article about people who has oral sex has a lot chances of getting cancer on the throat!!!

The right thing to do WOULD have been to ignore the note,but since you didnt do that,and you blackmailed her,your'e screwed.What I would suggest you do is,admit you have done something wrong,say sorry,try to make up for a stupid decision.The other two choices you gave yourself will be fun for a while.But will definitely come back and bite you in the ass.Either way.Just try and make it up somehow.But it wont really mean much still,since you started the whole thing,but that was your decision,a stupid one really,to try and blackmail her.My opinion on this,your screwed.

how about don't be a fucking stupid asshole, the girl was just scared you would ruin something she was doing, or working on doing, none of your business dude. By being anosey freak you are already by my books an asshole in the situation, so dont be a bigger one.

Jonin01 Wrote: I'm aggreeing with Foahchon here... The *right* thing is to ignore the fact you saw the note at all, and let things be as they may. How old are you anyways? Hopefully old enough to see what you are doing is wrong after a bit of thinking...because you obviously aren't with anyone now, and later on this whole thing will come back to bite you on the ass and hurt your chances of being with anyone later that hears about this.

You wrote my thoughts while I was writing them myself.Damn you Jonin!

Jonin01 Wrote: How old are you anyways? this.

18.

Blackmail her into this and it'll DEFINITELY come back and bite you in the ass (probably literally). Trust me.

I know Karma, and she's a fine lookin' bitch who gives comeuppance to those who deserve it.

kill_lots Wrote: 18.

Hmmm.

Old enough to know what you want to do then...and what might come of it.

Do what you want, it's your choice afterall.

I'm just giving you my opinion on what I'd do now if it were me...but if I were still 18, my choices might have been different, who knows?

Dude, you have no idea of howmany other dudes she's been with and what she might have. She may look clean, but with that sort of rep that she has, I wouldn't risk it.


GD

I have to agree with Foahchon and Jonin. Seriously, this is a no brainer.

Throw away the note, forget the blowjob, and apologize like a decent human being. You seem to be trying rationalize all this by saying she an opinionated bitch who labels everyone, but you're labeling her as a cheap slut, so you're not different at all. And so what if she is? For all I care, she could be a necrophiliac who rapes dead presidents. That's not nearly as bad as a selfish punk who obtains self-esteem by leaching off other people's problems.

I don't approve promiscuous behavior, but a blackmailing self-serving weasel is a hundred times worse. You choose what you want to be. But if you go out of your way to derail her reputation, or selfishly take advantage of her, then that would make you everything Foahchon said you would be: deceitful, hypocritical slime. If this is the case, then enjoy the karma as it bites you in the ass.

Dude, it's free head from a hot girl. Your 18 right, and the girl offered you head? If she really was going to suck your dick then you give her the note and take that shit.

If she says you have a small cock so what? She sucked on it. If I were you i'd take it and leave it at that, you 18 and you are leaving high school soon, you probably won't see any of these people ever again in your life anyway.

It would be one thing if she intentionally did something cruel directly to you or one of your friends, but if it's just that you think she's a bitch...that's just wrong. I say apologize for being an asshole.

malignantvermin Wrote: I guess you didn't read the part of my post where she gets her revenge, you fucking assclown. It's sex starved virgins like yourself that convince poor kids (like this one with the problem) to make the wrong choice.

Poor Kid? He's 18. Assclown? You're a douche bag. Virgin? Hardly. I am a horny guy, I'll admit that.

While I would never do something like this to a girl she DID offer something. So STFU. Please? I'll let you borrow a pencil.

The_Cold_Kombatant Wrote: Poor Kid? He's 18. Assclown? You're a douche bag. Virgin? Hardly. I am a horny guy, I'll admit that. While I would never do something like this to a girl she DID offer something. So STFU. Please? I'll let you borrow a pencil.

haha, nice try faggot

Nice one slick.

WWJD?
I think we all know what the right thing to do is, but do you do it is the real question here.

GD brings up a good point actually. She could be crawling with STD's for all you know (and judging by what you've told us, it sounds likely).

I don't have integrity anymore, so i know what i'd do, but if you do go for it, you'll probably end up in a place you don't want to be, wishing you had of just said "buy me a coffee and lets forget it".
Just weigh up whether or not getting your ass kicked by her is worth it.

Blowjob. Just don't forget to pick up some bleach and penicillin.

-Shoe

This dude sums it all up pretty accurate:

grizzle Wrote: Dude, it's free head from a hot girl. Your 18 right, and the girl offered you head? If she really was going to suck your dick then you give her the note and take that shit. If she says you have a small cock so what? She sucked on it. If I were you i'd take it and leave it at that, you 18 and you are leaving high school soon, you probably won't see any of these people ever again in your life anyway.

I've gotten head from a few sluts a few times, my dick never fell off, my life wasn't 'ruined', etc. Actually, it's always a great time, always.

I wouldn't want to get it from a chick with a rep like that.

xcarnagex Wrote: It would be one thing if she intentionally did something cruel directly to you or one of your friends, but if it's just that you think she's a bitch...that's just wrong. I say apologize for being an asshole.

I agree with this one. If she did something that put you or a friend in a bad spot then go for it and get your victory blow, but if she hasn't messed with you or any one you care about then just forget it and give her the note and say "maybe next time"!

Jonin and Crow are wise in this. That and the dude with the chinese chick as an avatar.

Typically most 18 year olds are stupid in the first place, don't worry its not your fault you're 18 I know, and don't take into the consideration the risks of sexual situations. Just like the kids that had already posted whose ears perk up the second they hear, see, or smell sex you will be making an idiot of yourself if you go along with it.

Somethings to consider:

1) STD's can be transferred through oral, have to had her tested? If she is the slut you claim she is then it might be smart.

2) If you're insecure about the size of your penis then it might be a good idea not to take the risk of her telling people you have a tiny one

3) If you are not careful this could be considered a form of rape even IF she offered, remember as long as there's blackmail, there's a degree of coercion. The label of sex offender will ruin your life

Now to the ethical side of what you're doing:

1) Women talk bub, its a fact of life. The dangerous thing in doing this is she may go off and tell any chick you want to get with what a prick you were, then you're screwed.

2) Lastly, I know and you know how wrong this is so there is no need to call you vulgar names, but I would encourage you to be more compassionate in this case. Do you know her family situation? Do you know her burdens? I am one who says people act like what they live, so who are you to be judge and executioner because you don't like how she acts?

You never know you may need something of much greater value than a pencil one day, and if you are going to objectify people then your fate will be the same.

Jesus Christ....This is a once in a lifetime situation.But please prove to this girl and every other girl that says that we men are nothing but sex hungery emotionless bastards that some of us have some fucking class.

Dude if she has been a slut, that's her problem, you don't have to go down to that low life level, respect a bit yourself and remember you don't wanna treat woman like that, as you were given birth by one, always get that in mind...........

Mk_FrEaK Wrote: Dude if she has been a slut, that's her problem, you don't have to go down to that low life level, respect a bit yourself and remember you don't wanna treat woman like that, as you were given birth by one, always get that in mind...........

I agree.From reading over what you said again,you were being an oppurtunist.You saw her drop a note,picked it up,read it (shouldnt of even done that,not for your eyes) and then thinking or knowing,not sure which.That she was a slut,you jumped on the oppurtunity.In your mind you were probably hoping for what she has offered you.Because why else would you have blackmailed her?If it was a normal girl (she could be for all I know) you might have just gave it back.BUT you had to read it,and take advantage of what you read.Really,you did every wrong thing that you could have,it doesnt even matter what you do anymore.You have already de-graded yourself an immense amount.

My advice:None,you have already screwed yourself over.Go ahead,you can go ahead and do it for all I care.Doesnt matter anymore.

I read this earlier, and honestly, you'd be an asshole to take the bj. It's bad enough that you blackmailed your way to the point your at. If you go through with it, well it will come back to haunt you in one way or another. Others have talked about karma, and seriously you will come to regret it if you follow through. It's up to you, but don't complain when the consequences and repercussions hit you, cus you've been warned...

Whenever someone passes or note or drops one, and I pick it up, I don't read it. I personally think it's low and shows how susceptible to temptation you are, plus everybody does it. So what the fuck. Don't do it.