Kind of harsh don't you think? Icebaby already told him he went about the situation the wrong way. No need to kick him when he's down.

He was acting all droopy and such and she actually went for it. She WAS clearly interested. All he had to do was man up and be honest about it and say "I want to take you to see a movie." Mission Complete.

So frustrating to watch.

You son of a motherfucker! You think you know everything that goes on in my life, but guess what bitch, YOU ARE FUCKING WRONG. I've been stressed out about school, stuff at home, and being on this during the night looking for advice. GOOD advice. Not some shit from a fuckhole like yourself! Now fuck off, you fucking asshole!

Oh yeah. Thanks Icebaby for the KIND advice.

Yeah, I know that we are supposed to encourage and support people into believing that their immature behavior is "ok" but this thread just seems like a big pity party for everyone who is socially inept.

This thread should have been closed a long time ago. To be honest, it should have been closed after the creator of this thread clearly stated that he's no longer coming back to this site becuase we're a bunch of mentally challenged idiots who cannot accept his views of life. Seriously, I have yet to see the guy post anymore after that comment.

But then the thread started heading into a different direction and that's when things just went hay wired. Unfortunately, people can't come together and accept views on sex because that's one of three topics that people will never agree upon 100% all the time. Thus, this thread either needs to seriously be closed or another thread should come out of this in giving advice to people who need help getting a guy/girl... I believe that there is a thread like that already created.



As much as a lot of people come onto this site and giving their own advice to random strangers, some people will obviously give out something that the person who's receiving, doesn't wants to see. That's when you just ignore and let them make a fool of themselves rather than stooping to their childish ways. Let them look like the idiot, not you as well.

This could go into the General Dating advice thread. That's where it belongs.

My jimmies remain un-rustled.

OK, as a woman are you going to date the man that comes up to you confidently and asks you out straight away, or are you go date the guy who mopes around?

I'm just telling him what he has to do. Truth be told a woman has decided whether or not you have a chance within about 5 minutes of meeting you. You might as well go up to her with your best stuff and find out.

Shyness, towards me, is actually something cute to see. My boyfriend was a bit shy when he took me out on our first date together. But I'm sure this is an issue with you, since you don't think men at all should be hesitant with their actions and should just make their move.



You didn't really tell him anything, you just bashed him in being a coward and needs to grow a pair in order to get this girl to like him. There's a way in writing to people and then there's just rudeness. And it's not that hard to notice that I'm not the only one who thought that your latest post was nothing but having you kind of acting like a jerk. Sure, the respond back was uncalled for and completely unnecessary, but still.

Still completely unsure how you can read woman's thoughts about how they can determine whether or not within the first five minutes, the guy they're talking about is either date-worthy or not... Unless you're the kind of person who enjoys reading relationship articles on Yahoo! by people who claim they are "relationship experts."

Because in all seriousness, no one is an expert at love. Every relationship is different in each and every way. I doubt another couple does the things my boyfriend and I do. And I'm sure there's not another couple that you and your girl do.

pretty much this
also baseball chill out dude

I know your young in all but your over stressing yourself dude
Just live dude, your not gonna stay young for long so make the best out of it

there's nothing to be scared of
honestly whats the worse that can happen to you

you make things way worse then they actually are
everything is right in place for you too

and if it doesnt work out its not the end of the world

life goes on
its not gonna wait for you

The hell is happening in this thread? Am I late for the party? Last time I was here I saw the OP rage over something and then said he's leaving, now it's just people yelling at each other.

Haaaaaa. Humans.

Nobody is an expert, but I am someone who has always been able to get a date, and I am someone who has been in a successful relationship for the last 3 years.

Just go give it your best shot.

Look who went from calling me a coward to saying for me to give it my best shot. Lets give him a round of applause everyone.

Well guess what. I'm still young and stuff like that really pisses me off. Although you try to make it up by telling me 'Just give it your best' and try to break the mold, I have every reason to be mad at you. You said I was a coward and said I wasn't able to ask her and I let the chance slip out of my hands. Well, I'm still fucking pissed and guess what? If I don't have the courage to ask her out (as you said), then whats the point going on here for advice? Well, I thank Icebaby andUNdicovered for the gentle and caring advice.


Again thanks you guys for supporting me.

You can all beat around the bush and sugar coat it, or shoot an arrow or twelve, but that doesn't deter from the fact that he isn't going to get anywhere if he's just dipping his toe in the pool. Stop hesitating and jump in, or you won't be going swimming.

Thats cool because:
1) I like swimming and
2) I would LIKE to go swimming. Stupid Dad won't open it.

yes yes

I often dip my foot in the pool when i first go swimming and its been a while

once
twice i dip my foot in the pool, trying to find the right time to jump

though i change my mindstate after this

I say fuck it and stop thinking
just jump right in

and it feels good

next time or next few times I wanna jump right in

Its necessary to take these leaps of courage in the beginning

I think baseball is trolling.

I am fucking not!

Hello Fucking Not! Nice to meet you!

A girl just texted me and told me she liked me. I respect her for it. Barely even know her. So yes, the same concept applies. If you like someone, forget about what's between your legs and tell them, because in the eeeeeennnnd it doesn't evennn materrrrrrrrrr.

I really feel like telling you right now

and i gotta whole lot to say

the days without you are the darkest days in my life when im scared to hold a knife
I wear my tighty whiteys tight

Hiiiiii

Haha. Very funny.
Your so lucky that a girl texted you and said that. But heres the problem.
1. I don't have a phone and
2. I'm a coward as Zero said
Guess the only thing to do is not ask her out and not to go back to this for advice because I wont need it.
So goodbye

At this point, the only thing holding you back is yourself dude. Even if you feel like a coward, you can change that.