mojo. I am not trolling. I just disagree with you.

Right, right. Can we bury this thread now please?

I've said all I have to say. Want to get get a beer?

I wanna get get a beer

Sounds good . Order me up a ice cold pint of Yuengling.

I must have sat at my desk laughing for a good ten minutes now after seeing that.

You are already a better man by being genuinely honest like that and it is going to be your greatest asset when you decide when you want to tell her how you feel about her. It's a great thing having that feeling in your gut and not knowing what is going to happen next with her, take advantage of it because as you get older it rarely comes by.

If you truly are her best friend I can tell you what you do have which the other boyfriends obviously couldn't get, her trust. And you being afraid isn't a bad thing, even the boldest of men will buckle when it comes to a woman they fall for.

You are probably tempted to just get it off your chest and pour everything out to her. I would caution against that because usually that just chases a person off. People tend to over think and start visualizing events that haven't even happened yet, such as a long term relationship before they even go out on the first date. Generally speaking, people don't want to see their life folded out in front of them, both guys and girls alike, and more times than not they tend to withdraw from a person that they know really do care about them because they're afraid of the commitment to that person, I know this because I've done it to someone that cared about me.

There are obviously reasons why she has dated so many guys and my money is on her having those same issues on commitment that a bunch of people have. You need to be understanding of this first before you speak to her about you and her. With a woman you need to always be in the moment, especially when you're young, it's such an attractive trait to another person and to be honest, it's just fun, don't be the guy that's gonna tell her what you are going to do, actually do it first and let her evaluate your character.

You sound pretty young, so expect to be burned either by her or some other girl down the line, but don't let that hold you back from taking action. Having your heart torn out by a girl is like a rite of passage into manhood, and depending on how you deal with it is how you'll carry yourself in the future. The more mature you are with a girl, the more understanding, patient, and composed you are will make them feel more comfortable around you, and there are lots of perks when you're comfortable with another person.

All you need to do now is make a move, you have to swing the bat if you want to win the game. Keep us updated on how it goes.

Obviously. If she were chained, she wouldn't be able to bring you your food once prepared. Personally, I'm a proponent of the retractable dog leash. That way, she can just make it to the chair before zooming back.

Hahaha, that was hilarious!! Thanks that made my day!

There is a good portion of guys who are intimidated by attractive women, regardless of confident they are otherwise.

Beta males, that aren't man enough to appreciate a woman yet.

God bless ya. You guys are amazing!
Yea I still didn't tell her... yet. But every passing day I feel the urge getting stronger. And yes I am young. Send me a message and I'll tell you how old I am. I have a plan that I'll take her to the side of the school alone and maybe just maybe ask her out and maybe she'll say yes.


You guys are the bomb! Every time I read your advice, I sorta feel like you guys are like my older brothers and sisters. That sound creepy but its true.
Again, God bless ya.

I suggest Canadian beer

beers still on right?

Whats with the beer?! I'm going through a issue with girls and all you care about is beer?!

Ok, here's what happen today.

Today, at school, was a party were we could dress up in Middle Ages costumes. Towards the end of the day, we had a costume parade on the school track. I guess I had a pissed look on my face because Meghan (thats the girl I like) came to me and said " Matt (yes, thats my name) whats wrong." I told her I was tired and don't talk to me or touch me cause peole kept patting my back and asking me the same thing. I could tell she didn't believe me because, as I was walking away, she grabbed my shoulders, turned me to face her, said "Matt, something is wrong. Tell me." I shook her off ( I know it was rude but I wanted to be left alone) and walked away. She followed me a little bit, turned, and went back to her "friends".


Later, during gym, she came up to me again and asked the same thing. I shook my head and walked away.



Well, there you have it. Those were the highlights(or lowlights?) of my day I know I was rude, just when I'm like that, I get grumpy. Tell me what you think.

It sounds like your anxious about telling her how you feel. Tell her dude. If you don't, you will regret it. You sound like a good kid, so tell me how things turn out for you.

I think that you shouldn't use ten smilies in one post.

If someone else asks her out while you're still working up the courage to do so you'll just end up feeling like shit. I'd say you should just ask and get it over with it, but I don't have much room to talk.

I must say, I applaud women who are brave enough to make the first move, considering the many negative labels placed upon women who do.

I feel if she feels she has a shot, she should take it, and the same goes for men, really. One shouldn't always wait to be approached. If they do, they may miss out on something great.

Today we haf the day off. Now all I have to do is make some sort of game plan on:
1) what to say
2) how to say it
3) when to say it and
4) where to say it

Almost done thinking of it but sometimes I disagree with myself and have to change everything.

1) wrong
1) wrong
3) wrong
4) wrong

preparing like that isnt gonna get you anwhere,
you cant predetermine that kind of stuff

the best you can do is get a general idea in your head but honestly

just have a normal conversation
do you really ever plan out a conversation before having one
no that doesnt make sense

you should just talk to her man
say how you feel, but to a certain extent
you should be fine
it will come naturally to you

dont think about it to much, sounds like you stressin bro just take it easy
and when you got a opportunity take advantage of it

Tomorrow, I go back to school. I'm pumped and nervous. I am still debating with myself and it is tearing me apart! If you look at me, you will think, "WTF is wrong!" And I'll say, "leave me fucking alone or I will beat the shit out of you. I'm a wreck! Help me!

Calm yourself down man. She's gonna see you as a douchebag and you'll get nowhere with that. Don't Pre-game just do it when you're feeling good about it I had the same problem when asking a girl to prom I did it and it ended up working out! If it doesn't at least you know and you won't regret messing up with her.

How about the next time you're in a bad mood, you don't show it and act really stupid about it so you can avoid situations like this?

You could have said something a tad bit nicer to your crush such as, "I'm not really in a chatty mood right now. Kinda tired and just want to be left alone for a bit. But thanks for being a bit concerned." You didn't need to whip out the childish moves such as shaking hands off the back or walking away without saying a thing. Because if I was that girl, I'd be a bit ticked if some guy I'm being concerned about is being really rude to me for no apparent reason other than being tired.

So, that could obviously lose some points right there if you're trying to get this girl to actually like you.

Dude, you failed hard. You had her right in the palm of your hand, and you threw it away. What's wrong with you?

The reason you wont ever date this girl is because your scared too. Otherwise you would have told that what is bothering you is your own inability to ask her out.