Icebaby Wrote:
Got some great advice to throw out there...
If you made plans a week ahead to do something awesome... stick to that plan and don't change it. Even if your older friends don't want to do that because your girl/boyfriend isn't old enough to hit up a bar or a 21+ club... still stick to your fucking plan.
Could have had one awesome night at a club, instead, me, my boyfriend and our friend gets dragged into an hour and a half long drive towards some beach, that probably doesn't even exist, because a friend of theirs wanted to do something instead of going to a club. Plus, he dragged along these two whales that the three of us were just making fun of. We couldn't believe that this night was literally getting ruined by the minute. As soon as we changed our plans, I knew this night was going to be an instant failure... I wanted to go clubbing...
This club was an 18+ club and these other friends of theirs didn't feel like heading there because oh silly me, I'm not 21 just yet, and the club would probably be a sucky one.
So, instead of partying and fist pumping at a club that did serve beer, so the 21 and older people would have had their beers, we drove around for an hour, trespassing a military base because you have to go through that in order to somewhat enter this so-called beach, driving 25 minutes more after realizing there's no way to get in to the so-called beach, realizing that the guy doesn't know how to get to the other so-called beach, so we drove another 25 minutes to our friend's house... Lost the mood to drink and was pissed off for the rest of the night.
This is like the third time I've met this guy and so far, every time I've seen him, I've been pissed off because he does something stupid. "Oh I'm going to get mad at the guy next to me at this concert because were in the Aragon and he's smoking..." *Thirty minutes later* "OH shit dude is that weed? Let me smoke that even though I already got mad at someone who was smoking a cigarette next to me." *Getting high* "Yeah, I'm going to blow the smoke right into my friend's girl's face because I'm high, I got a beer in my hand and don't give a fuck!"
Yeah, fuck you, you douchebaggery cunt. At least I don't get to see him for a while...
I know exactly what you mean.
My best friend at the best of times is a total flake. He changes plans constantly to suit himself or suddenly informs you last minute that any plans you have made together have been suspended because he spent all of his money on weed, booze or sex toys (yes, it's true). If he does arrive, he's always late/or stoned. Making plans with him lately since he's gotten a boyfriend have become a nightmare.
We're supposed to go to an outdoor festival that goes on for 3 days, and the tickets cost €240. He's unemployed, I'm not, and he still hasnt bought his ticket considering the event is on the 2nd of September. Normally I'd think "well he's not working, so I can understand why", but the guy's been able to splash out ridiculous amounts of money considering he has such low income on crap that he doesn't even need (hiking boots, for example, because his new boyfriend thinks they look sexy).
I've literally just got over a week until I know if I'm going to the fucking thing after months of hyping it up and looking forward to it because the douche hasn't gotten around to buying his ticket yet. I've my equipment and everything bought, and the time booked off work to go, I just held back on buying my own ticket because I didn't want to waste so much money if he did pull out on the plans last minute. I'm half tempted to follow your advice Icebaby and go on my own if needs be. Getting a pain in the ass with him changing plans so frequently and being so unreliable about the things we plan. God knows he'd never be that flakey with his boyfriend.
*throws shade at his boyfriend*
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