Feeling Old and or Out of Touch
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posted03/12/2014 09:02 PM (UTC)by
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Coltess
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At one point in time I was one of, if not the youngest user on this board. So, really, I'm not the best person to complain about the ravages of time - I'm still a young man.

However...lately I've been feeling kind of old, and to understand where I'm coming from, one must first understand that culturally I'm about a decade older than I am physically.

Some of you are probably saying "What the hell does that mean?" Well, my oldest sibling is currently 32, my sibling closest in age is almost 26. I grew up kinda poor, not too bad; upper lowerclass, lower middleclass something like that. However, where I grew up was really, in the middle of nowhere - there were no other kids to come and hang out, no neighbors at all, just us. So, I came to really rely on my siblings. I learned to like what they felt a kid of my age should like; I watched VHS tapes of shows they likes (or re-runs), I watched the movies they liked, I played NES games. From what my brothers offered me, and the fact that Disney was in the habit of running re-runs, I lived culturally out of sync - 87 Ninja Turtles, Ghostbusters, Ducktales, Darkwing Duck, Rescue Rangers, Punch-Out, Mario, The Legend of Zelda, and hand-me-down toys were my existence for the first real years of my childhood.

Once I went to school I adapted somewhat, but I never really grew to like what was the norm - I didn't like Spongebob, I didn't like pokeman, I didn't like Digimon, I didn't like Yu-Gi-Oh- I just didn't have any kid interests in common. But, as I got older and developed more adult tastes I guess you could say that I "caught up."

Now, closer to the point of the thread - When Harold Ramis died, it really saddened me. Ghostbusters was HUGE to me as a kid (even if it was over a decade after it came out) because my siblings made it that way for me. My closest friends, on the other hand, really didn't do anything more than shrug. At the same time, I'm seeing them all in a tizzy about Twitch plays Pokeman- I could care less.

Then came the day I spoke with my nephew- he's five. He told me that he and his older brother were going to watch "the old ninja turtles." When he put my sister back on the phone, I made a joking comment that I saw she'd "Found the old Ninja Turtles VHS tapes." She said no, and that the boys were watching a DVD of the "newer Ninja Turtles." The boys were watching the 03 series and it was "The Old Ninja turtles."

Now, just today I watched this. Now, I'm not that old, but my Great-Grandparents had a rotary phone and I remember it from when I was little - still, I don't blame the kids for not knowing that. However, their sheer lack of knowledge about basic land-line phones made me feel super...frustrated? I mean, for God's sake texting from it? I remember when my older brothers got their first cell phones, and I don't believe those could text. Now, remember, I grew up in an economically depressed small town that only ever had one cell carrier (still does), so our entire town was behind the times, but still.

Anyway, I'm just curious as to events that have made you guys feel out of date or old. Hell, hearing me complain about feeling old probably makes older users here feel old because I used to be "that dumbass kid" - still am.

But really, what makes you feel old and out of touch?
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Spider804
03/04/2014 06:42 AM (UTC)
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When people started labeling things "Hashtag".

It's the fucking pound sign. Kids these days.
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03/04/2014 08:08 AM (UTC)
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I know what a VCR is.

I remember when the internet was new.

I used to read Goosebumps all the time.

I remember when having a CD player was the coolest thing ever.

I remember when MTV and VH1 had music videos.

I know the frustration behind blowing a cartridge.


This is what makes me feel old.
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03/04/2014 01:14 PM (UTC)
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What makes me feel old:

- The babies born in 2000 are now entering high school.

- I never had a phone during my high school years like today kids.

- I know what a VHS is and now how it works.

- I had a cell phone that didn't text.

- Listening to music on CD players instead of iPods/phone/ipads.

- Using a phone line to connect to the internet.

- Using AIM instead of Skype.

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Jaded-Raven
03/04/2014 03:04 PM (UTC)
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There was a point in my life when such things as internet, CD's and cellphones didnt exist...
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03/04/2014 04:41 PM (UTC)
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Jaded-Raven Wrote:
There was a point in my life when such things as internet, CD's and cellphones didnt exist...


CD's have been around since like, 1982.

How old are you?
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Spider804
03/04/2014 05:06 PM (UTC)
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Riyakou Wrote:
Jaded-Raven Wrote:
There was a point in my life when such things as internet, CD's and cellphones didnt exist...


CD's have been around since like, 1982.

How old are you?

Well, he's an Edenian, so, probably a couple thousand years. lol
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RazorsEdge701
03/04/2014 06:22 PM (UTC)
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I'll turn 30 this June. The 80's stuff you grew up with despite it being "out of sync" for you like Ghostbusters, that legit was my childhood. (Granted, I'm not the kind of person who lets nostalgia blind him to flaws, so I actually think the 80's Transformers, GI Joe, and TMNT sucked and think more recent versions like the '03 Turtles or TF Animated are vastly preferable, but still.)

I also haven't followed pop music since I was a teenager. I have friends talking to me about names like "Kesha" and I'm like "I do not know who the fuck that is." I know Katy Perry as "the girl who looks like Zooey Deschanel with huge boobs", I've never heard a single one of her songs.
And Riyakou, it depresses me to have to explain this to you, but regardless of the year something was invented, people didn't actually commonly own and use music CDs until the mid-to-late 90's. What people used to listen to music on was cassette tapes.
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03/04/2014 06:28 PM (UTC)
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The 90s shows on Nickelodeon are actually very scary, I get all the adult humor I never got as a kid, and some aren't as funny as I thought they were.

I saw a little kid looking at a shirt that says "You're #1" and the kid goes, "You're hashtag one? I don't get it." Seriously?

People would rather be on their cell phones at a sporting event rather than watching the damn game.

I can remember when cell phones were as thick as bricks and not small at all. Heh, that rhymed.

Games back then also didn't heavily focused on how great the graphics were, we just cared if it played well and we can get some fun out of it.
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RedSumac
03/04/2014 10:29 PM (UTC)
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I don't feel old, since I love open myself to the new ideas and technology. I am gladly embrace new interpretations of the old stories and new styles. I am interested in limitless possibilities that changes in technology and style could bring. It's not like I automatically love all new because it's new, but I am always open to the possibility that new things could be better or on par with old ones.

P.S.
I have rotary phone on my kitchen and I am still using it.
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03/04/2014 10:54 PM (UTC)
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Every generation has to relearn its history. That's just the nature of things.
The only glaringly different thing about this generation seems to be that everyone is along for the ride.

When it comes to those generational pop culture references: History establishes expectations. Expectations put pressure on material. Corporate steered culture is all about maintaining the basic goodwill of existing brands, but erasing the difficulty of expectations. Rewrite history with simpler ideals. Take the early learning curve of the past and treat it as precedent.

When the overriding philosophy of the day is built around familiar ideas in increasingly reduced forms -- it's easy to feel old. Not sure about feeling out of touch, though. The mediums are giving up the process of refinements that used to drive things forward. Being out of touch is the flavour of the day.
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Zmoke
03/05/2014 01:54 AM (UTC)
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You are always as old as you actually are, period. Whether it makes a difference or not is completely another subject.

Text messaging became a daily part of many of our lives here as early as in the mid 90's, mostly because the text messages are after all a Finnish invention, thus the rotary phone has been scrapped altogether before many of the kids today have born.

Then why are the kids expected to know about something they have never needed to use, that has been scrapped before they were even born?
For knowing their history of course. But beyond that, there's little actual use for that type of knowledge. All in all I'm up for development rather than stagnation. Let those kids make mistakes so they can learn.
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Coltess
03/05/2014 02:36 AM (UTC)
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Zmoke Wrote:
You are always as old as you actually are, period. Whether it makes a difference or not is completely another subject.

Text messaging became a daily part of many of our lives here as early as in the mid 90's.



I know for a fact that I didn't send a text message myself until the year 2006. I grew up in a different place from you, so my concepts of old and new are different from yours; these are called cultural differences. Furthermore, if you'd have paid attention to what I'd wrote rather than let yourself get caught up in the rapture of correction, I excused them for not knowing how to use a rotary phone. My comments were about their blatant misunderstanding of land-lines in general. Last I checked, land-lines are still very common.

Christ, Zmoke, you've been an insufferable prig lately. Feel free to disagree, but this holier-than-thou act is getting old.
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Zmoke
03/05/2014 02:52 AM (UTC)
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No, you got it all wrong, I wasn't trying to be offensive, coltess. I know the cultural differences and more than anything, I just wanted to bring forth a different aspect to this topic. Furthermore, we still have a landline phone in my home even though it is barely in use. What on Earth is your problem?
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Jaded-Raven
03/05/2014 07:07 AM (UTC)
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Riyakou Wrote:
Jaded-Raven Wrote:
There was a point in my life when such things as internet, CD's and cellphones didnt exist...


CD's have been around since like, 1982.

How old are you?


Oh, then I'm not that old. ^^
I thought it came later, but it just wasn't commonplace when I was a kid.
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03/05/2014 08:29 PM (UTC)
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I'm not considered that old (only 18 turning 19 next month) but I do remember pagers, the dreadful MSN dial up sound before connecting to the interwebs, VCRS, and the dread hand grenade brick thing known as a Nokia.

I miss my childhood.

brb
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SubMan799
03/05/2014 09:50 PM (UTC)
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2004 was ten years ago.

Kids born in this millennium are going to High School

I'm not the youngest person in my college classes anymore. I'm everyone else's age now.

I joined this site about 8 or 9 years ago. Jesus
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03/06/2014 05:52 AM (UTC)
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So thanks for that video, i now feel about a hundred.

I've been feeling the effects of aging and being out-of-touch with modern media a fair bit lately. It's weird to me that i used to follow pop culture news so religiously when i was teenaged, but ever since TV became less and less a part of my life there's a lot that flies past my radar.

I'm not saying TV is necessarily good, nor am i saying the alternative, the internet is bad. On the contrary, if it weren't for the net i'd be completely out of touch altogether. I stopped watching TV altogether about 8 years ago and while i don't really miss it now, i miss what it used to be. I miss teletext where you had to input a three digit code to get to the articles you wanted. (I followed music news and the crappy cartoons made in what looks like 2-bit graphics). There was also a quiz called Bamboozle and to play it was multiple choice and you had to select the right answer using the colour-coded button on the remote. Oh, and subtitles was page 888, great for putting on with TOTP or Eurovision. Stuff where you could see the lyrics.

Aaah... but i ramble.

Spider804 Wrote:
When people started labeling things "Hashtag".

It's the fucking pound sign. Kids these days.


Actually this # is called an octothorpe. Also known as a number sign in use in US and Canada. In Europe we usually use the abbreviation: No. (short for numero). Yay for random trivia!
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UlcaTron
03/06/2014 07:07 AM (UTC)
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I'm turning 64 this year. Fuck.
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Spider804
03/06/2014 07:25 AM (UTC)
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Octothorpe...I learned a new word today.
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03/06/2014 07:43 PM (UTC)
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I'm so old that people complaining about "feeling old" makes me feel old. It's just a rite of passage you go through growing out of your late teens into your mid-late twenties when you realize that you're no longer the "hot new shit generation".
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03/07/2014 01:46 AM (UTC)
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...Michael Jackson's "Thriller" video was scary when it first came out.

*old*

sad
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03/07/2014 02:08 AM (UTC)
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ThePredator151 Wrote:
...Michael Jackson's "Thriller" video was scary when it first came out.

*old*

sad


I first saw the video when I was four, though that was in 1995.

The only thing I remember was how captivated I was at how this black guy was able to dance with a bunch of zombies without being eaten.
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03/08/2014 03:22 AM (UTC)
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I lived through the cassette, CD, and their respective Walkman eras. I adapted to the digital age of music quickly though.

Pregnant back tvs, my Pokemon knowledge is limited to the 1st generation, a kid I met and befriended when she was 7 is fucking 14 (time flies, man), and my little cousin who was born in 1999 is 15 now. With a girlfriend. Who he recently dumped.

Again, time flies.
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03/08/2014 05:00 AM (UTC)
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Tekken will reach its 20th anniversary this year in December.

Soulcalibur and Pokémon will reach their 20th anniversaries in 2016.


Mortal Kombat has existed for nearly 22 years.

Street Fighter II is the same age as me, 23.


Knowing that many of the video game series I've grew up on are reaching 20-year marks, and many other series already have, makes me feel really old, even though I've only recently turned 23.
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